This questioned was asked by a relative of mine and while my answer is pretty easy NO, I thought I would get some others opinions. Two people dating exclusively, the guy moves in after four months he starts acting funny. She finds out that he cheating, but he says they are just friends. He moves out and in with the FRIEND. After a month he calls and wants the girl back. He says it was a big mistake. They get back together and things go good for a few months until she notices he's on his phone a lot. Checks his phone only to find out that he is conversing with someone else. They break up again. They don't see each or other speak to each other for a few months then he calls saying he misses her and he's sorry he wants her back in his life. He seems to be attentive, but there are times when he can't be reached and when she is talking he often says, I'll call you right back. Could it be that he is sincere this time or just a LOSER!! He says she is not giving him a fair chance.
2006-12-15 10:18:54 · 22 answers · asked by KB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I couldn't trust someone again after they cheated.
2006-12-15 10:20:41 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can learn to trust again, but with someone else. She's given this guy several AND FAIR chances, and it seems he is just too immature to make a commitment right now. He doesn't really love your relative, but rather is using her as he looks for something better. She needs to stop enabling him to take advantage of her heart. Tell your relative to move on...find someone else who will adore her and pay attention to her and make her enjoy life. Your relative needs to put her life into perspective, if she's young, she will have many many years to find the right person...she just needs to put herself in positive situations to meet good people. If she moves on, then perhaps she'll realize that she really doesn't want this cheater in her life, and that she should be having fun now without getting bogged down by all the drama and hurt this man is causing her.
2006-12-15 10:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wager it relies upon on some aspects. Has he performed this before? Is he a participant, flirt or thinks he God's present to women? Is he contrite and feels undesirable about it? became he inebriated or disenchanted about some thing? i'd attempt to forgive if it became some thing he did yet regrets. Has he apologized for his habit? Does he understand how a lot he harm you and is conscious that you want time to go back to grips with the wear and tear, have self belief topics and the heartache you've? Why do you imagine he sought convenience or excitement from yet another female? Are you having courting topics or does he have a roving eye? i'd actually come again with him if he became extremely sorry for his moves, isn't that type of human being oftentimes and made a grave mistake, takes duty for his moves, is conscious you're literally in a international of damage, realizes his moves are incorrect and shows you he's a replaced guy. all of us make blunders, yet our blunders have result and harm others now and again. He desires to inform you that he's conscious why you're harm and disenchanted. that stands proud because the actually way i'd evaluate taking him back. examine with him and word what he says. Then make up your innovations.
2016-10-18 08:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually you can learn to trust again..It's really up to you but it will never be 100% trust. You will questions some things. Some ppl can change it just depends on who the person is and how much respect they have for you. Sometimes ppl do get caught in a situation that they don't know how to get out of.
2006-12-15 10:21:26 · answer #4 · answered by trf_islandkandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation but in this case, you're right. It's a resounding NO! This guy is bad news and your relative needs to cut him off at the knees NOW and never look back. He just needs to stay single.
2006-12-15 10:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in that exact same situation...it is not worth it. One of my previous boyfriends cheated on me and I gave him a second chance. He promised to change, but it wasn't the same...I questioned him every second of every day. This person should get out of this mess before it's too late and they are hurt again.
2006-12-15 10:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by Danelle L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because if they cheated on u for someother person and they said likr that they were commited yeh right cause if they were commited to u they wouldn't cheat right. so no u can't trust them if they cheat. and they keep changing on u back and forth he is a loser and u shouldn't go out with him or her again. but that is only my opionion.
2006-12-15 10:25:36 · answer #7 · answered by wakazambio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just playing around with her..he goes with other girls..and once its over..guess back to her, cause he knows he can have her when he wants, since she's taken him back all this times. If my bf ever did that to me, he'd be out the door and never back in.
2006-12-15 10:22:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. In some cases that cant be true but in ur friends case it seems that he is living by that rule. she gave him 2 chances that should be enough
2006-12-15 10:22:30 · answer #9 · answered by drama dramz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He keeps coming back cause she lets him. Tell her to stop excepting his calls and move on with her life and stop being a pushover
2006-12-15 10:22:08 · answer #10 · answered by fiestylady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋