I recently got engaged and then after the engagment she started to question what will you do if I did something bad? what makes you mad? She also said I will throw off your ring (engagment), I will spend all your money, I will not let go off my friends...is that normal?
2006-12-15 10:14:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
well if she is just getting married she would want to know. and the reason being is she doesn't want to get you mad or if she doesn't want something to do something bad to where you cut off the wedding and the engagement. well hope every thing goes well.
2006-12-15 14:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that all these questions are things she has been thinking about but was uncomfortable saying before you got engaged. Now that you are going to get married, she needs the answers to those questions and that's why she's asking them. As for not letting go of any of her friends - I would hope not. By the same token, I would hope that you wouldn't drop any of your friends. Even though you are married, both of you will still want other people to talk to on a regular basis.
If you're overly concerned about her questions/statements, sit down and have a talk. It's the only way you are going to get straight answers.
2006-12-16 23:02:45 · answer #2 · answered by Patricia D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants to cheat on you be careful. Looks like she is testing the waters before she gets in full force. Plus the fact that she says she will throw the ring, spend all your money and will not let go of her friends. Be very leery of this situation. Instead of helping you save money for the wedding she wants to spend it what a girl. And the fact that she says she will not let go of her friends does that mean guys. Maybe there are very close guys who knows hum. You tell me is this normal. Yet she asks what makes you mad surely her spending your money and getting rid of the ring and what about the so called friends. Be very very careful before you do something stupid. Lots of luck.
2006-12-16 01:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by jmc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch out! If she's asking what the consequences of misbehavior are a) she is inmature and not ready for a real relationship and b) probably contemplating misbehavior as you type. And as far as throwing the wedding ring, spending money, and not getting rid of friends - well no one should have to get rid of their friends, but what's the other crap about? I'm a woman - I can't even imagine telling a man who has proposed to me these things never the less doing them.
2006-12-16 20:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by playing_shy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋