How can I find a guy that likes me? Im not what every other girl looks like. I one of the bigger ones. No guy would ever date me. I hear all the time that Im the funniest person they know, but that doesnt help me. I have never ever had a boyfriend, guys have told me that im pretty but I think they are lying. How do you other girls do it?
2006-12-15 09:52:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try going to church.Really !
2006-12-15 10:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by don_steele54 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I will be blunt.
First, lay off the soft drinks and candy. Second, eat every meal, starting with VEGETABLES! (you probably aren't willing to do this, but then, if you were, you probably would be alot smaller). Third, drink lots of WATER. And never eat everything on your plate or even until you get full.
What is more important than your looks, though, is confidence. You just said "no guy would ever date me." With an attitude like that, you're probably right. Nobody wants to date a lonely, depressed girl with no confidence. Instead of focusing on what you don't have, think about what traits you have that make you stand out in a good way. My wife is a good example of a big woman that is still very sexy because she has confidence, and she is very intelligent, and alot stronger than most women.
And lastly, if a guy cares enough about looks that he doesn't give you a chance, he probably isn't worth your time in the first place. Be confident and it won't really matter so much what you look like.
2006-12-15 18:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, believe and trust yourself, be the way you are and show it everyone. Appeariencies are not dessesive for this game, only for fools and 3 months-guys. If you are funny, you should be glad, only those who don't shine like you do are the ones who should be asking themselves what you wonder about. Trust me.
2006-12-15 18:06:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah! Don't let your weight interfere with your passion! Do something! Get out there and actually do something! Find yourself a man! They're all over! Come on! I've got faith in you ;)
2006-12-18 10:43:29 · answer #4 · answered by JU510 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have tried online dating? Just post your picture up there and I'm sure you'll get replies.
2006-12-15 17:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by The Doctor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey why dont you and i hit it off i would love to date you my names aaron male 21 branson missouri and im strong muscular funny smart
2006-12-15 19:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by zootigerstriped 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it's not easy, but if you were to lose weight, that along with your inner beauty would make you the perfect woman
2006-12-15 17:57:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im available.....im a great person IM me my sn is xtntx93
2006-12-15 17:54:34 · answer #8 · answered by PURE REPUBLICAN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋