my comp was not wroking so i called some mechanin to repair,he came & said that the virus has entered in com,so he has to take hard disc to clean,
i told him is there any file in the hard disc,he found that i have little knowledge of comp,he asked if i had used the mails ,r some xxx type link,i kept quit,he understood,said not to worry i am just taking the disc rest all r in your comp,i was relaxed as there were some of my personal file containing some of my e -mail friends,my some xx type pics.
Next day he came with the dics saying all r fine,now he will put hard disc & whatever files r in comp will be there,left
After that i started the comp.found all file in,
after few days he is sending mails,demanding that as he posses the details of my file,so if i want to save my face in family,i should co oprate,i know there r some infermetion of mine,if he diclosed to my family i will be in great problem.
I am married stay at indore MP
what i should do,say yes to him,r keep quit,
2006-12-15 09:44:21 · 9 answers · asked by rani_mehrani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear Mrs. Rani,
Nothing to worry. You can keep all the mails. Copy them and print them. Save them in a CD. Ask him to talk on your mobile or phone. Record the conversation and keep that also in a safe corner. Do it very carefully. He should not get any doubt. Then let me know about it. I am having one of my close friend. He is a voluntirly retired Military officer. With out your notice and consent we will nail him to the ground. Nobody will bother you. You can contact me through this group. No complaints no hasseles. You can leave peacefully.
2006-12-15 22:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by Nooks Trueman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make copies of the mails that he sends. Take printouts of them, and then tell him that you will call the cops if he persists. You could also take the risk and tell your husband. If you tell it properly, he would understand and could support you when you go to the cops. Everyone would have some **** or some other smut on their comps. So, it is nothing new. If the mechanic starts acting funny inspite of you warning, call the cops and show the emails and say that he is threatening you and trying to ask for sexual favors. That comes as extortion and he can be put behind bars. Do not keep quiet .. and don;t say yes to him. He will exploit you further if you do either.
2006-12-15 21:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by l_kur 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This man is a crook, a bad man. I would immediately confide in the husband and tell him honestly what has happened and he will then be able to support you in the fight for justice. Then, both of you go straight to the Police and tell them of the blackmail, they are the best people to deal with this. Dont be scared, you are the victim here, you have done nothing wrong.
2006-12-15 19:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save the e-mails. Print them as soon as they are received and save them on your computer. If he persists tell him that you have the files which will prove the letters came from his computer and if he doesn't leave you alone, you will give the files to the police and he will go to prison for blackmail (extortion).
Don't be afraid. You can do this and save your person and your pride.
2006-12-15 17:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by RangerEsq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way
its ur personal matter whatsoever u do and whatsoever u watch
u neednt to move to him
it doesnt make sense and he cant do anything to u for that
he is just taking a chance and bieng adult u are nt supposed to be shy of such things u
can also lodge a police complaint if u wish to
2006-12-15 23:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by sweetboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u call him to some place to discuss and at the same time call police inspector(u must explain the police the facts before ) then see the drama
2006-12-15 18:23:14 · answer #6 · answered by man_red58 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Extortion is against the law. Call the cops.
2006-12-15 17:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by lenshure 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go and report to the local police in a condition with your identity hidden
2006-12-15 22:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by gunchu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn some grammar and spelling. Then maybe I'll be able to help!
2006-12-15 17:47:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋