Flirting tips?

Question

Can anyone suggest a couple flirting tips when meeting women . I am a shy guy and I am trying to break out of my shell. And flirting has largely been a disaster for me usually ending with me getting all red and walking away because I bumble it so bad..

Answer 1

When you find a girl you like and want to get to know, remember to breath while talking to her. It's okay to get nervous. Laugh it off and make a joke of it. I always stumble over my English, so when I do I tell people I'm still learning the language. People laugh and you move on. when you're talking to a girl keep a mental note of what is working for you and what isn't. After a while you'll be able to have more things you like than things you don't. Just remember to be yourself and you'll be fine. Also, never walk away, it can be repaired if you stay and fix it, but if you walk away the problem will never get solved. Hope this helps! Good luck to you!

Answer 2

Flirting?, have you ever been with or had a girlfriend. Do you have a female friend? If not, you're pretty much screwed. Try having more confidence in yourself, Flirting is over rated anyway. It's fun but can be dangerous for someone like you. Especially if your just out on the town. You might flirt with someone that has a boyfriend that you don't know about and well, trouble is sure to follow. If you want to have a relationship with a women, try the brutally honest approach. Just walk up to her and say " Hi, I'm not real good at this, but may I sit down and talk with you a minute". Introduce yourself, and just start making small talk. Allot of girls would appreciate that more than, yo baby or whats up, just stop trying to figure out the right way and just be your bumbling self.

Answer 3

Well considering that I'm a woman, I twirl my hair and kinda crack a few love jokes. Humor is ALWAYS a well option to flirt so matters do not get bizarre. My buddy instructed me I am trendy (however I do not consider her) and that boys love me. I fairly do not suppose so. So fairly, cracking jokes and getting almost your bf/gf is a fairly well option to flirt. My bf and I are the couple who do bizarre stuff like sluggish movement stuff. Anything funny is a fairly well option to flirt. If you mess matters up and do a nasty comic story, now that is unhealthy. Also plenty of eye touch. Hope this is helping! ~Coca*** With Peace and Love

Answer 4

Theres like levels in flirtatiousness lol. I'll try :)

- Clever talk
- Delay so they wont go away
- Smoothly end up asking them out without starting the conversation with "Do"
- Don't say they're hot (especially right off the bat)
- Always buy
Hopefully that helps a bit lol. It really depends on the person you plan on flirting with. Try watching Hitch ;)

Answer 5

Just talk normal to her. That might not be possible so much for the women you see in bars, but I never saw anything so appealing at the bars anyway. I have always had better luck at other social gatherings, blind dates, people you meet at work, men at church and so on. What always did the trick for me was eye contact and honest open conversation.

Answer 6

Ok...so here is my favorite pickup line. Actually, its not really a pickup line but more an innocent way to get conversation started.

Guy: Hey, do you know how much a polar bear weighs?

Girl: (Confused on why you would ask such a wacky question) No

Guy: Just enough to break the ice! Hi, my name is ______.


It works pretty well to break the tention and initiate conversation. What happens after that, is up to you.

Answer 7

I know this can be hard but girls like a confident guy...not arrogant, just confident. Start a conversation with her and flatter her, I was out a few weeks back and started to talk to a women and I told her how pretty she was, and lone and behold in 15 minutes we were making out on the street.

Answer 8

It just requires confidence. So keep trying. We've all fallen flat on our faces a few times. That's part of it too. You'll get it after you try and miss a few times. Go for it!

Answer 9

don't say anything a simple smile , look, look away ,then look back to see if she is looking the you can talk to her if she miles back.
It gives an I'm interested and leaves it open for her to initiate. sounds like you would do better with a woman who would take the lead.

Answer 10

Hi it sounds like your not confident about yourself, first work on that ! Then you would not have a problem on being shy . GOOD LUCK (you have to be confident)