I like this guy and i think he likes me to. i mean he is always smiling and staring at me. but he won't ask me out. and i need some other way of getting his attention.
2006-12-15 09:28:39 · 33 answers · asked by Catherine 14 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the best way to get a guys attention is to not try to get a guys attention if he cant notice the smart, sexy, funny girl in front of him he's either blind or gay dont change yourself for any man it's not wort it my addvice just be yourself and if thats not good enough for him keep moving and remember looks dont mean a thing if he looks good but dont want you there are a billion other men who look twice as good as him
2006-12-15 09:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by a girl 4 u 2 envy 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Skin / cleavage / overt flirting isn't going to work, babe. He's probably already attracted to you (so the flirting isn't necessary) but maybe he's intimidated by your attractiveness (in which case the 'skin' is only going to make things harder for him).
Look him in the eye and smile A LOT. Touch his hand when you talk to him. Let him know when you're available (eg, "I'm not doing anything this weekend, what about you?") If all else fails and he's super shy but he's worth it, take the plunge and ask HIM out. Life is too short to spend it waiting.
2006-12-15 09:39:16 · answer #2 · answered by pjensi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eat alot of garlic and git sprayed by a skunk no how about come in cognito and see if the action is different or maybee dress scummy or maybee just ask them if that is a friendly smile or they like you smile you could go for years and if you dont tell them what you think they will never now i dont think you should reget one day saying gee i should have said something to them when they are in a new relationship when you wanted them for your self for me i just go about it the wrong way everytime and usually the girls run the second or few seconds i say something its really hard for me and i hear that judgemental voice that talks me out of it and even though i have not seen a girl in over 10 years i still cant say something to them its really hard for me lots of times or you could practice on people you would not ask out and just talk to them i thank a gal for letting me practice on her cause i think im no good at it cause i hear this or i hear that and i just dont approch them myself and ask them lots of times i stare into a girls eyes cause your supposed to see something there and you just know so im looking for that and then they look away but usually if a girl is really pretty i just pretend like i dont see her
2006-12-15 09:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by peter w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know him. Become his friend and talk to him a lot see what you can find out about him. If you like what you hear then ask him out urself. Trust me, you may be nervous, but in the end it may be worth it!!! It worked with me and my boyfriend and we've been dating ever since =)
2006-12-15 09:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by Kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be brave and open up communication with him, you gotta talk to him and get to know him otherwise it's just the two of you as total strangers oggling each other. Relationships start with friendship so if you talk you may find you and him have things in common, which can lead to hanging out/more talking and getting to know/getting used to one another. And THEN you can try dating. It all starts with idle chit chat so try it!
2006-12-15 09:33:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that if the guy wants u he will notice you. Always remember that good things come to those who wait. And, always know that somebody is always watching you so just give it time if he is the right guy for you then you will know it. He will be in your face so much you will have to tell him to let you breath. Be patient and leave it in Gods hands. Don't be so needy. Be yourself and remember that love comes when you least expect it. Watch and see!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-15 09:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by angiepooh160624 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him attention and give the signals that you want to go out. The best thing you could do is just ask him out...tell him you like him. Guys tend to like girls who are a bit bold, and who just say how they feel...except if its too much to start.
2006-12-15 09:32:33 · answer #7 · answered by bheithcao 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1)Take off your shirt, then 2)Rub a ham sandwich on your chest then 3) use the ham sandwich like its deodorant then 4) eat the sandwich 4) make one more sandwich and finally 5) repeat until he asks you out (maybe 5 or 6 times)
2006-12-15 09:33:37 · answer #8 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey just be your self if he doesn't like you for who you are then probably he doesn't deserve you . but if you get him to notice you flirt a Lil before getting into any thing too deep.and once you got his attention play hard to get.
2006-12-15 09:34:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't help you there. I'm in the same situation. Wish I could help. I think I might check back for answers!!
2006-12-15 09:30:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋