2006-12-15 09:14:59 · 24 answers · asked by eviljane2004 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
no drugs and lower ur alcohol ... depressant makes u depress
bring your best features out and show the world who you are
walk as if you were a queen and if people make fun of your flaws laugh it off.. envision theirs... enjoy life and smile more often think you are a goddess and your body is a temple.. and we can't dis gods right>
2006-12-15 09:19:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
dont need to drink to be confident im confident and i dont drink , well for the last 20 years anyway, confidence comes with time and experience go out with other people this is a good way to meet people and get to know other people the more you do it the more confidence you will become
2006-12-15 17:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by julie t 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just remember that the whole social scene is a bit of a joke. One day you will be happily married with kids and when you think back to the problem you have now you will laugh at this. Just get in about and remember the people that you feel you want to look good in front of will just be a memory one day when you are in a very happy place.
Life is what you make it you don't need to get smashed to enjoy it.
2006-12-15 17:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Believe in yourself......they say life begins at 40 but why wait as I did...when I hit 40, although I had never shyed away from speaking my mind, I used to mindful of upsetting people, but then I realised that by speaking my mind I didnt actually offend anyway...and that is one way to gain confidence....Don't live a lie and you will never be found wanting....GOOD LUCK
2006-12-15 17:23:50 · answer #4 · answered by Bluefurball 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look at yourself in the mirror give yourself a big smile and look at how good you look. Even if you look a holy terror there must be something that's okay. The throw your shoulders back, imagine you look a million dollars, and you will automatically exude confidence. Steer clear of too much drink cos you will look a right holy terror when you are bladdered in the gutter
2006-12-15 17:18:57 · answer #5 · answered by Oldgirl 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well you feel more cormfortable about your self when you drink, so you seem to have issues with feelign cormfortable about the way you act/look/speak around others. It's a self esteem issue that you can cure by simply socializing more without the need to drink, and simply by accepting who you are.
2006-12-15 17:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Stay sober while everyone else gets wasted, trust me you look a lot more confident that way.
2006-12-15 17:17:06 · answer #7 · answered by mitchellar31 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So what about the way other people think or are saying about!.
Who cares?.
Its about you. Only you and nothing else will do!.
Get out there and take centre stage. Your the best.
2006-12-15 17:32:10 · answer #8 · answered by Old Man of Coniston!. 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
practice in themirror for a while, then remember we ar all the same and crave contact with other people, look at yahho questions,we are all communicating, lastlywhen you feel stronger,bite the bullet and force yourself to start talking, you will learn lots of new skills and in 6months time it wont be a source of bother to you.
2006-12-15 17:26:18 · answer #9 · answered by brommas 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u have to believe ur self that u can have confidence witout drinking too much.
2006-12-15 17:20:32 · answer #10 · answered by Nana B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't care. Who cares if someone shoots you down. If they do, they are missing out. If you don't put yourself out there, how is anyone going to get to know you? Let go of your inhibitions and live. Otherwise, you'll wake up 60 and regret not living.
2006-12-15 17:19:23 · answer #11 · answered by firedncer80 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋