My girlfriend wants to break up but i really dont want it to happen. i want to still be with her. someone help me out
2006-12-15 09:13:53 · 14 answers · asked by akabob6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let her go, why be with someone who doesnt want to be with you?
2006-12-15 09:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by Liberty against the NWO 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is sit her down and talk to her, ask her why she wants to break up with you, stay calm, communication is key. If she points out to you that you have a lot of flaws that don't jive well with her or that you have issues with communication or don't spend enough quality time together ect ect (whatever the reasons are), you can tell her you will make a concerted effort to change and try to be better, also you may need to tell her that she's not totally perfect either if she has done things that hurt you as well, so you are both in the wrong in some way and have to try to work through it together. If you both want to work things out you need to address your flaws and good points without argument, calm conversation gets people a lot farther than playing the blame game. Also don't whine and beg for her to keep you and try the puppy dog eyes. Relationships require a degree of maturity. If her reasons for leaving you are really valid then you must accept them, don't stalk her or yell at her or cry and beg her to take you back because it will only make matter worse. Show her you're a man, give her space and let her decide. I hope this advice helps!
2006-12-15 09:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 00:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is think enough of yourself to have a girlfriend that actually WANTS to be with you. Let her go. Move on. Bless her on her way.
2006-12-15 09:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go, the more you beg her to stay, the more you'll push her away. Just try to move on, if it's meant to be, she'll be back. I know it sounds shady, but if you pretend like you don't care, and start being a a$$hole to her, might just turn her on =) Good luck!
2006-12-15 09:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by Cindo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds hard but accept it.......Find out WHY she wants to break up with you. Could it be somethign your doing or NOT doing, a mannerism of yours that is just driving her to the point of insanity. Sit her down for a talk BE calm when you explain to her how you feel
2006-12-15 09:16:11 · answer #6 · answered by ag2588101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first figure out why she wants to break up with you (how would you know she wants to anyway?) then try to fiz it. girls can be pleased with something romantic, get her a present or some flowers, and whatever you do, be realli sensitive to things she says or does, she might be giving you some hints on what to do
2006-12-15 09:16:34 · answer #7 · answered by Rach12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, let it go. Why do you want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with her? You just look desperate, needy and ridiculous trying to hold onto her if she wants out.
2006-12-15 09:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she wants to break up why do you still want her? are in you still in highschool? Just let her go. You may be smothering her and she probably doesn't like that/
2006-12-15 09:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by live, love, laugh often! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey let her go she cant be happy if thats what she wants. why should you want to be so selfish. let her go with your blessing hold your head high. get on with your life.
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2006-12-15 09:18:01 · answer #10 · answered by PETER J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋