I hate my life so mcuh!!!!! Here's the problem and please understand me. I'm asian and I'm just 13 years old. Almost everybody in my school are dating, Many people say I'm very beautiful but.....................ok, here's the story, i had a crush on his guy, let's say his name is Adam, but then I got heartbroken because this girl named.....let's say Alice dating him. Then I got over him, then I like another guy......let's say Bill. THEN, Alice started to date him. Then now, I liked this guy named........let's say K.J, and then this afternoon, I just saw Alice went out the door, and she hugged him and kissed him on the cheek, I think. I was far away, but i have good eyesight. Alice is from Poland and she is really ugly, how come she got every guy I like. I'm so tired of getting heartbroken.
2006-12-15 09:09:53 · 31 answers · asked by DarkAngel T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because guys know shes easy.
just go up to someone you like and hang out with them.
flirt.
2006-12-15 09:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by Elizabeth and Laura 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If any of these guys likes you they would have taken the step to know you better and things goes on but they all saw this Alice hanging with all of them and as you say she is ugly then they just hang with her for she is easy not a relationship, knowing that 13 is still far from a real relationship
Good luck and take care
2006-12-15 09:18:22 · answer #2 · answered by Thank God 4 everything 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best advice that anyone could give you hun is to be true to yourself and to be yourself. Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder and in your case it lies in your soul as well. When those around you are jealous they will fight to make sure that they get what you want, just to try to prove a point. Maybe this girl has a reputation for doing things that these guys know about. Maybe she is flirty with everyone to try to make their stance in the world. You say she is really ugly. Maybe she knows it and knows no other way to get a guys attention then to do the things she does and act the way she does. If this girl is your friend I would suggest you sit and talk to her. The worst thing that will happen is she will get upset or you will at her. In the end things blow over and reality will kick in. If a guy can not see the beauty that you carry and can not see the attitude you have for life then no guy is worth being with you. Best of Luck with this hun.
2006-12-15 09:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by CroDiva 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At thirteen as many times as you like, you will get heartbroken. Having a crush is very different from having a relationship with a man for years who then cheats. None of the boys you mentioned have shown an interest in you or gone out with you. Its very early days yet for you to be so interested in affairs of the heart. And it hurts too much to invest so much of yourself in the fickle affections of other teens. Wait a bit longer, until you fall in love and try to know the other person better, right now its just dating for the sake of dating and Alice is probably more forward in her behavior. But it doesn't seem like she keeps them.
2006-12-15 09:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know exactly how you feel because I am Asian, too. I'm not quite in the exact situation as you but I am pretty close. I would recommend forgetting about it and excepting your life. Think on the bright side of not having a boyfriend, you don't have to go to all the troubles of buying gifts and such. Also think about the future of this Alice your talking about. Considering how many boyfriends she has gone through, her love life will probably be too full. Everyone will someday have their day of glory!
2006-12-15 09:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by dolphinluver 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like this Alice girl is a hooker and you should be paying attention to school instead of dating. Trust me, ther dating world is no joke. I started dating when I was 17 and now, while I'm 19, I'm happy I did. My grades would have been so bad if I dated younger. Too much stress. And your life doesn't suck just cause your not getting a guy.
2006-12-15 09:15:48 · answer #6 · answered by demon_chrno36 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is very heartbreaking!
in the future:
if you like a guy and dont want to go through alice, do not be shy! hopefully if you know him, talk to him a lot, not as much to scare him away though. talk to him and when the time is right tell him the truth (that you like him). also walk with him to any classes you might have together or near eachother.
you see i am really really shy around my crushes. it is so sad. i like a guy named walter and i have the same problem except cassy, doesnt really kiss or hug walter but they do flirt a lot. i dont know him or anything but i will hopefully. what i am going to do because i am really shy, i am going to get a paper, write my phone number, give it to him in the hallway at school, and say that he dropped it. that is the only way i could think of. you could try it if you dont know this guy and you are shy. but if not, try talking to him.
GOOD LUCK!
=]
2006-12-15 09:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by adrienne n 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sweety.........your thirteen. You're not heartbroken your feelings are just hurt. And about .........let's just say Alice...... she doesn't have feelings for these boys she just wants....well let's just say she wants to be friendly. (VERY FRIENDLY) Don't be that type of girl. When you think about it, in no time you'll be the one all the guys will go crazy about.( Even though they don't want to admit it......they like the good girls) I know exactly how you feel. There is an "Alice" at my school. (I'm in high school) I see here with all the guys. SHE WAS EVEN WITH MY BOYFRIEND!!!! This " Alice" even had us to break up, but now we are happier than ever. The key......be yourself. (Now I'm laughing in "Alice's" face and loving every moment of it.)
2006-12-15 09:20:07 · answer #8 · answered by clesha 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Alice is a not so nice girl. Maybe she is a little slutty too. But hon, you are THIRTEEN! You have the rest of your life to get with boys. Don't let some guy that you're not even dating break your heart. It's not worth it!
Also, if none of these guys even knew you liked them, how could they ask you out? Alice is obviously making it known that she likes these boys. Boys like girls that like them.
2006-12-15 09:15:53 · answer #9 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-30 20:01:41 · answer #10 · answered by papen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. your 13 years old!
2. you dont know what heartbreak is until u have had a serious relationship!
3. if ppl say u say u are then u are beautiful!
4 forget her she is probably gonna b fat win she is 17!
5 bill and kj and adam are idots if she is ugly!
6 cheer up the grass is always greener on the other side!
2006-12-15 09:16:19 · answer #11 · answered by Panictwilight18 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋