My dad was like that took awhile to come to terms with it He died 10 years ago but than or by than i forgave him i went to his funeral.Told myself i will never be like him.And i'm not
2006-12-15 08:25:11 · 12 answers · asked by Victorio 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
First of all, I sympathize with your situation.
Second, good for you to realize that those kind of actions (to get woman pregnant & run out on them) are not responsible thing to do for a man. After all, a man should be a "gentle"man, be responsible, and stand up for their action.
Third, be proud of yourself, man. True & honest. Way to go...
2006-12-15 08:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by meiwij 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, yes, but it depends on the circumstances. It does take two. If the woman is setting the man up to think she could keep him around that way..than I would disagree. If they're messing around not using protection and are both aware of the consequences..I would disagree. However, if they're planning a future together and intending to have children and the man turns into a child and runs when it does happen..then I definately agree.
2006-12-15 16:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitely pisses me off and I am a victim of that tragedy. Although it is an epidemic among young parents, you have to know who you are dealing with before you decide to bring a child in this cold world. Be mature about you decision to get pregnant and be prepared to raise the baby alone if he turns out to be a *******.
2006-12-15 17:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by babeesis9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a vicious cycle and I'm glad that you have decided to break it. The one thing I do have to say is that it is not always the dads. There are so many kids in foster care or living with another family member because the mom ran out too. I couldn't image not wanting anything to do with my own flesh and blood whether or not they were conceived out of love.
2006-12-15 16:29:38 · answer #4 · answered by Kristin Pregnant with #4 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi! I'm a spanish girl and I dislike those types of men, i think that if they are mature for staying with a women they have to take the responsabilities for whatever that can happen.
but it,s true that some women sometimes are not very self-conscious and the fact that some of them don,t take any precaution.
i also think that you are so nice when you say you are not going to be like your father,that is becouse you really know how difficult is the life without a father
2006-12-15 16:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Woman have sex too easily these days and are equally to blame for your being fatherless. People stay together only when a relationship with common goals and values is established and immoral free sex does not constitute a relationship. So no I don't dislike "those men" any less than I dislike "those women. In my opinion they are both morally bankrupt.
2006-12-15 17:07:03 · answer #6 · answered by Weasel 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes cowards they need to step up and take care of their responsibilities if they cant they need to learn how to wear a condom or obtain from intercourse
2006-12-15 17:13:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, those guys are jerks, my boyfriends dad did that.
2006-12-15 22:02:02 · answer #8 · answered by Cassie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kudo points to you! We need more "men" instead "boys"
2006-12-15 16:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by lorisbarbie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's great. If the woman is dumb enough to let herself get pregnant by an azzhole like that, they should have to pay the consequences all by themselves.
After the guy is sterilized.
2006-12-15 16:28:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋