I just quit my job, packed my stuff, got a plane ticket and I'm ready to go. But I talked to his friends and they all tell me they feel sorry for me. He is a compalsive lier and Never really told the truth our entire relationship. Should I just dive right in to disaster or should I follow my heart?
2006-12-15 08:21:29 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're a moron. Let the guy go by himself and so he can go get a mexican whore and an exotic vinerial disease.
2006-12-15 08:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
His friends should really know what kind of person he is. Maybe he is not going to Mexico. Maybe he is Married, Maybe he never felt the same way about you that you felt about him. And they are trying to save you a lot of Heart ache. Maybe his friends are really trying to be your friends right now. This is truly a Disaster waiting to happen, and YOU KNOW IT!. Be smart. get your money back on your ticket. If you cannot then count this as a costly lesson. In any case if you confront him, it will not do any good. Because he is a compulsive liar. He is going to lie to you.
Be intelligent and follow your brain not your heart. Hearts are broken all the time, But they mend and you always find someone better for you in the long run. and then you sit and wonder what on earth did you ever see in so and so.
But of course only you know what you are going to do in the long run. so good luck in your choice.
2006-12-15 08:39:34 · answer #2 · answered by ms_swampy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mama Mia Mama Tia! This is a huge question! If you know in advance that this man can't be straight with you or ANYONE, then why would you even be willing to go down there? The fantastic terrific person that is you deserves to be loved and respected and lying is a form of disrespect and people that lie are incapable of loving anyone but themselves. I don't know your boyfriend but YOU DO and if you honestly feel that he is a compulsive liar and he has never told you the truth then tell him that you will be on the next flight to mexico then go find a job where your living now and find a real guy!
2006-12-15 08:25:48 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Follow your heart. You already quit your job. If all else fails think of it as a vacation. Plus you'll get to see another country many people will never have a chance to do this.You might just meet your real prince charming on your adventure.Just be careful and make sure you always have enough money on you for a ticket home. Have fun.
2006-12-15 08:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't waste your time with a guy who can't be honest with you, you're only going to make yourself miserable in the end no matter how much fun you may have in moments with him. Give yourself a break, don't go to Mexico, and use the time he is away with other girls, (BTW don't go to prevent this, that's stupid) to relax and celebrate some time away from the liar. You deserve better, ditch him, follow your heart, it's trying to take care of itself. You said it yourself, going would be diving into a disaster, why on earth would you want to do that?
2006-12-15 08:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It mite sould tuff but if he is a liar i strongly reccoment that u find some1 esle who is not a liar and treats u with respect. Cuz u DONT want 2 live a life of lies. Unpack everything, refund ur ticket and break up with him. Like i said it may b tough but thats how life works. Sry if i could change things i would. once again sry it will b tough.
2006-12-15 08:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart is one thing. Remember, the human heart can be decieved. If he is a liar, why follow him??
Use your heart is good, but also, your head. If you go with him, will that ruin your future?? Are you able to get a job or survive by yourself. If you have to depend on him, what if he is lying to you. So what's going to happen to you??
Go back to wherever you came from , waste your time and money for that?? Make sure you know what you are doing!
2006-12-15 08:24:51 · answer #7 · answered by Webballs 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Forget the guy! If he has been lying to you throughout the entire relationship, he isn't worth it. But hey you got yourself the ticket! Go down there, enjoy yourself, and you may just find a great after all!!
Good luck!
2006-12-15 08:26:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't go. You should be a leader not a follower! The compulsive lier thing does not sound good!
2006-12-15 08:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since you already got the plane ticket, then you should go. If it's not for your loser boyfriend, then you can at least have a nice vacation. Don't listen to his friends, find out for yourself.
2006-12-15 08:26:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should take some time and think before you jump.
If it turns out to be true then you are going to be heart broken and in Mexico were you might put your self in danger. think about it
and good luck
2006-12-15 08:25:32 · answer #11 · answered by Lara <:(((>< 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋