am i that ugly?????

Question

everybody around me tells me that iam ugly and i don't have a chance getting married and that really put me down ... honestly i feel worthless and sometime i wish i was dead so i don't have to hear them anymore ... my mom and my grandmom and my sister and brother and even my relatives make fun of me i mean i don't think they mean to upset me but it's really painful and i end up crying alone in my room ....my sister is soo beautiful and she always cares about her looks and takes photos which is soo impossible to me because i will see how ugly i look ... i know iam not that good looking but i pretty inside and i want everyone to see that and not focus on my looks ... sometimes i think i will not find someone who loves me and think iam so beautiful so i guess now everbody cares about outside beauty beside that iam alone and don't have a close friend i can talk to ... i have never been this alone .. how do i deal with all of this it's soo overwhelming and soo depressed help me please?

Answer 1

no you'r not ugly.. just don't waste your time worrying about what they think about you...love yourself no matter what!!

Answer 2

Your family is being very cruel. There are many good men that are more interested in inner beauty than outer beauty. Do you think a makeover could help you with your self-esteem? You could save up for such a thing maybe....hair cut/style, facial, make-up consultation, etc. How are your teeth? Would some whitening treatment be beneficial or do you think you should try braces? Braces are pretty expensive but maybe you could look into a payment plan. Teeth make a big difference in outer appearance. If you are overweight then make an appointment with your doctor to discuss a plan. Get involved in local activities and volunteer to help others. This will help with self-esteem issues. Don't give up hope. Just be a good person and refuse to allow others to make you feel bad. You will probably get married before your sister.