I mean, on a scale of 1 to 10...I'm like a 15. I just don't get it.
Are women really that terrified of commitment, or is because I ask them to marry me after the first date?
2006-12-15 08:04:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't take any notice of wot the others say I will gladly marry you , I am sexy rich intelligent funny spontaneous and yes maybe just a little male but don't let that little detail get between us , I love you and want to have your babies even if it takes all night xxxix
2006-12-15 09:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not scared of commitment, scared of commitment to the wrong person. If you ask someone to marry you, that means you are commited solely to them for LIFE. They barely know you after one date. You don't know if you are compatible with that person at all. And if you say divorce is an option, then you really need to consider what marriage means to you. You marry someone if you love them and while you may be a great guy, time is important in getting know someone and really fall for them. It's not money, it's not who you know or anything like that, let them get to know you and the real you and I'm sure they will fall for you if what you say is true. Take it easy on the first date though, girls consider it psycho if you say you've fallen for them that quickly.
2006-12-15 08:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by happily married ( : 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm they probably run screaming from you because you are way to clingy and full of your self.
I wouldn't want to be around somenone who believed that they are a 15 out of 10... And if any guy asked me to marry him onthe first date and seriously meant it I would figure they need their ggreen card or something.
I know plenty of women willing to committ... like Me... I am the epitome of the wifey type and Ihavn't been single since I was 12.... and I have beenwith my bf now for over 2 years
2006-12-15 08:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by xxkittenluvxx143 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL --- Sweetie ---- do you really think for a minute that asking a girl on your first date to marry you would work for longer than let's say a month.
I don't think commitment is the thing scaring them off.
2006-12-15 08:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every woman would love to be proposed to one day! Normally, it is not the same day that they meet the man! If you seem to be to desperate, you tend to make us nervous! If you're a good man, then just show the woman that you are worth her time of getting to know you! If you see yourself as a "15", then some woman might see you as a egotistical person! It is good to have confidence, but not to the point where you exude a negative taste to her! Be her friend, get to know her (likes and dislikes), and make sure that your goals are going in the same direction! JUST SLOW DOWN! Let God map out your life. He will send your "Rib" to you!
2006-12-15 08:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it kinda sounds like your just a little too like proud of your looks but a lot of girls are a little scared of commitment......wait you ask them to marry you after the first date?!?!!?!? cause u dont know anything bout them yeah id be a little freaked if someone asked me to marry them after the first date......unless it was.........
2006-12-15 08:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!! But not nearly afraid of commitment as men are.
2006-12-15 08:10:51 · answer #7 · answered by Princesa Morenita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love commitment. i want to be commited to someone. so for me it would be about a 2.
2006-12-15 08:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They'll commit really quick if they think you have money to spend on them.
2006-12-15 08:05:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out to the mall ans give them EVERYTHING SHE WANTS girls love gifts, buy her some sexy lingier and later in the relationship have a sleepover and let her wear it, i mean girls love having sex with muscler guys! go to the gym to pick them up!
2006-12-15 08:11:26 · answer #10 · answered by cheeryice2244 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋