My best friend went out last night and had three vodka oranges. The third drink was bought by a stranger in the bar who had the drink sent over to her table and chatted to her for a while. She remembers feeling very sleepy and seeing double. Then she passed out. When she woke up she was on the floor of a men's restroom and the stranger who bought her the drink was inside of her, having unprotected sex and her head was banging on the floor. She asked him to stop but he quickly ejaculated inside her and pulled up his jeans and left her there. She then seems to have passed out again. She was found by paramedics, laying in a small pool of her own vomit. WTF?
2006-12-15 08:03:22 · 18 answers · asked by Very Nice Indeed! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my friend was a virgin before this happened. She says that even though she is now devastated, she must have enjoyed it because she remembers having an orgasm just as he ejaculated inside of her. She feels like a whore and is considering killing herself. She doesn't even remember the man's name.
2006-12-15 08:06:04 · update #1
He probably did something to her drink. thats horrible, she was raped, does she remember anything about the man? She needs to call the cops and press charges. and maybe go to a therapist. i'm very sorry that this happened to her :(
2006-12-15 08:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by sunkist3122 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That is truly horrible! She was definitely drugged. Your friend needs immediate counseling, from a rape crisis center. They can help her with the awful trauma she's been through AND with reporting it to the police. The police SHOULD interview any and all workers and patrons at the bar for information, that hopefully, will lead to this vicious freak doing a LONG stint behind bars, getting raped repeatedly himself!
PLEASE encourage her not to give into shame or fear and fail to report this or get counseling. She's really going to need it AND the support of friends and family!
Your friend can find her local rape crisis center by going to this link (or you could do it for her). Good luck to her...and props to you for helping!
http://www.ibiblio.org/rcip/rapecrisiscenters.html
P.S. The people above who said she should get the morning after (or Plan B) pill are right! And also get tested for STDs. Since HIV doesn't show up right away, the doctors MIGHT give her a preventive anti-viral med. The sooner this bastard is found the better!
2006-12-15 08:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by Gwynneth Of Olwen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is probably the date rape drug. My advice to all girls (maybe even guys, too) is never drink one that is not directly from the bar or liquier store. I would think it is pretty obvious, but it is a must. I would never do this to a girl, and I never have (and I never will)! It shouldn't matter whether or not you should drink it, even if the guy (or girl) is very attractive. You don't want to be drugged and then end up having a kid you may have not wanted.
*Unfortunately, you may need to watch the bartender as well if they may have bad intentions. But, at least the bartender can get in trouble if he/she does drug your drink.
2006-12-15 08:13:58 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW i don't even know what to say to this one .... : (
She was Raped its not her fault even though she had more drinks than she could handle as for the orasm she was drunk and couldnt understand what exactly was happening so she probably wouldnt have enjoyed it if she was sober !!! and he probsbly put a date rape drug in the drink he sent her and thats maybe the reason she felt sleepy because thats what date rape drugs do ...and his intention of buying her a drink was probably to rape her using the drug to kind of sedate her ...
make sure she takes STDs test and pregnancy test too ...and a rape kit if she alrady hasnt
2006-12-15 08:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer think of you like an ambulance or something... looks like everyday decrease than the impact of alcohol behaviour. If he gets very worse (like passing out for an quite long term) then call the ambulance. GET HIM removed from drinks. do no longer enable him have something extra! Get him a bucket or something so If he desires to throw up he can. enable him lay on the settee till he recovers. Throwing up is a fashion for the physique to assert he has had too lots, so If he's no longer doing that then he must be wonderful.
2016-10-15 00:34:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a classic case of date rape to me. She should try to get a sample of any DNA that he may have put inside her. That way, they can track the deadbeat down and arrest him. This should teach you both never to accept drinks from a stranger. Ever.
2006-12-15 15:52:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He slipped her a "date rape drug" that is why you never take drinks from strangers and never leave your drinks unattended. If you leave it to go dance then get a new drink. Also keep your hand over the top of your glass. Better safe then sorry.
2006-12-15 08:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by wanabe30 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your friend was raped.The drink was drugged with a "roofie"
She needs to call the police before this guy does it again.
2006-12-15 08:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by Mark K 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Screw calling the police... Call me if you get any info in this guy and I'll cut his throat myself! I have couple of friends who had this happen to them and they haven't been the same since... Fortunately for them I found the prick who did it to them... And I handled the matter myself...
2006-12-18 07:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hope she reported it and went to the hospital for a rape kit to be done.....no one should ever accept a drink from a stranger...what was she thinking???? Hope she is ok and that she learned something here.....
2006-12-15 08:07:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋