im 15 my name jordan. on wednsday my GF broke up with me. but i want her back but she says it prolly wont happen. i still love her i cant get her out of my head plz help?!? is there any way i can get her back even though she thinks we wont?
2006-12-15 07:47:24 · 15 answers · asked by jordan l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on, my friend. Move on.
It only hurts for a little while. And when you find your next girlfriend, it will go away completely.
The last thing you want to do is beg or be pathetic. You're a man. Be tough.
2006-12-15 07:50:26 · answer #1 · answered by cailano 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all Women want what they think they can't have the only real possible way for you to get her back is to move ahead acting as if it's no sweat off your back, I know this probably isn't possible for you I have been where you are so I understand. Some Women are doomed to be self distructive you are probably a very nice Kid and she was very lucky to have a kid who cared so much for her, but she simply doesn't see that now but in time when you have another girl and seem so happy it's when shes not with anyone she will then realise she made a mistake letting you go, but sadly by that time you wont feel as you do now about her. You simply have to let her go and even though its hard act like you are so happy and alls going great for you, maybe just maybe she will turn around and come back, but odds are it will be too late and you will have a girl who really loves you, just dont carry that pain into your next relationship so many do that and hurt good people like you.The Key is this it sounds cruel but it will work in the future, the 38 special song ( Hold on loosely but don't let go) Make her love you more by not showing how much you really do love her, sounds deranged but women are very unpredictable and no man will ever completely understand them, for me my success has been if you can touch a Womans heart the rest is gravey. But at your age the rules are a bit differant girls that age don't know what they really want all they know is they want what they think they can't have , some never change so just play hard to get give some but always hold back
2006-12-15 16:01:49 · answer #2 · answered by albert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is... There is a right thing to do in this situation.. and its called waiting. Maybe you will get back together in the future. There is no telling, but sorry bud thats basically all you can do is wait. Relationships are 2 way streets... not a one way. If she doesn't want to be with you then unfortunatley it won't work. Sometimes you need to give people a chance to realize what they had. She will realize it in time, after she dates other people who aren't as good as you... After memories come back... AFter she misses you.... she'll come back to you in time if that happens. But without time it will not happen. Give her time and all you can do is hope. In the mean time don't wait. You can't wait forever. Becuase there are chances she won't come back. or chances she won't realize things until 7 years from now. See there is no telling and no way to get her back. If she dumped you because you messed up then that is a different story and you can buy her roses and candy and beg for her back because chances are she still likes you but doesn't want to be with you because you hurt her. But if she broke up with you because she lost interest only time. Good luck and try to move on in the meantime. If you always have that hope in the back of your mind it might help while you move on... but the truth is the hope is extremely small chanced. might make thigns easier though. don't bug her, she will like you less.. what happens , happens let her go for now.
2006-12-15 15:53:58 · answer #3 · answered by LIZ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's one way to cure this. It works every time, but it's nots easy to get:
A NEW WOMAN.
In the mean time, just realize that it's not going to happen and if you keep pursuing it you'll make your self look like a stlker and then you'll never get another woman.
Put your self in the perspective womans shoes? Would you waqnt to date a guy that gonna give her a hard time about not seeing each other if it's not gonna work out? Of course not.
2006-12-15 15:54:28 · answer #4 · answered by texxsmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jordon, you need to try to get ahold of your ex and apologize to her about everything you did wrong; you may not feel like you should but do it anyways.Treat her the way a real man treats a woman.If she really loves you she will give you another chance.
2006-12-15 18:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by brandon's gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what I do when a girl breaks up with me? I go find another one and to make my ex jjealous.
Women for some reason can't stand to see you having fun with another woman(recently broke up).
2006-12-15 15:51:12 · answer #6 · answered by jack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on what her reason was for breaking up with you. You just have to prove that you can change and make things better. Treat her like a queen! :]
2006-12-15 15:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel...i went through that 2. it takes time to get over it. don't desperately try to get her back. sit back, act like it didn't bother you, and wait for her a couple months. if it still doesn't work out try 2 suck it up and listen 2 "move along." hha idk..it worked 4 me!
2006-12-15 15:51:29 · answer #8 · answered by Surfergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 14 n my bf and i just broke up too and i want him back i love him and he's in my head too.for you i'd say,..be sweet show her you deserve another try writ her a song or poem to show you really love her and u'd like to give it one more shot
2006-12-15 15:53:32 · answer #9 · answered by Mz.Myunique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honostly, dont let your thoughts linger on her, its not like shes the only girl in the world for you. I would look for a girl who wouldnt break up with you, not like her.
2006-12-15 15:50:19 · answer #10 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋