a girl i like and i agreed to just be friends for now, bc we are both going through stuff, but she e-mailed me and said that her mom is missing, she lives in australia. so i found her and said that i just wanted to give her a hug. is that inappropriate?
2006-12-15 07:41:48 · 13 answers · asked by the w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is not a very touchy feely person so i worry i made her uncomfortable
2006-12-15 07:43:29 · update #1
Who did U find--the girl or her missing mother? Who did U hug--the girl or the missing mother?
A hug wouldn't be inappropriate. But if you really like her and like receiving affection as you apparently like showing affection, find a new girl. You won't be getting your natural gift for being affectionate reciprocated.
M
2006-12-15 07:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not inappropriate at all - it's a caring gesture regardless of what your relationship is. I'm not touchy feely either but a hug is definitely needed sometimes. Human touch is important!
2006-12-15 15:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by seest12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that isnt inappropriate......when something happens like someones mom is missing.......a hug is a way of saying I'm here for you.........even for non touchy feeling people. However, IF you are really concerned.... I would suggest an email to her stating
that you apologize if the hug made her uncomfortable, but you didnt know what to say & thatwas the only way you knew to show her that you are "there for her" if she needs you.
Good luck & dont worry....
2006-12-15 15:48:28 · answer #3 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a hug between friends during a difficult time should not be strange. Just don't let it go further than that for now.
2006-12-15 15:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by Elaine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, there's nothing wrong with a hug, you're friends come on! sometimes i hup people that i just met, it's not like you're kissing her. If she is uncomfortable with that, she needs to get a grip on herself!
2006-12-15 15:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet.
2006-12-15 15:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by Mujer Bonita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess that's your form of comforting her. I mean hugging her and letting her feel that she's not alone is kinda sweet.
2006-12-15 15:45:28 · answer #7 · answered by Confused Loner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she feels uncomfortable then don't hug her,,maybe you just want to start with words first ,,,,make her feel comfortable first
2006-12-15 15:47:16 · answer #8 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man sounds like a good thing to me.Just dont come of to strong.
2006-12-15 15:45:58 · answer #9 · answered by Chris T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda weird and u shoulda talked to her but whatever i gues strange
2006-12-15 15:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by mikysmith1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋