my bf and i have been together for about a month. ive had sex before and he's a virgin, im not really sure if he's just never had sex or if he disagrees with premarital sex. weve never really messed around sexually, would it be wierd of me to make the first move?? how do i ask him his opinions on the issue, or should i not even ask at all???
2006-12-15 07:40:07 · 6 answers · asked by <3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just seduce him. Premarital sex is good for you and if he's weird about it one or two nights with you will bring him around.
No talking necessary. Just start making out and take it to the next level at the right moment.
2006-12-15 07:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by cailano 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you've had some kind of talk about it if you know he's a virgin. You need to talk about it and find out where each of you stand on the subject. Don't make a physical move, TALK to him about it. A month isn't a long time, when the time is right it will happen as you sound young. Respect his wishes if he wants to wait, men won't admit it, but the first time should be special.
2006-12-15 07:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel about him and that you;d like to take the relationship further. Some guys are so shy (and with the threats of sexual harrassment all over who can blame them) that it takes a baseball bat to convince them to touch a woman. (I'm more of a Mac truck guy myself). Once he gets the idea, he may also need a little coaching. Don't be afraid to tell him what you'd like. Guys find that a major thrill. If it comes down to it, take his hand and place it where you want. That's a pretty obvious incentive.
2006-12-15 08:10:30 · answer #3 · answered by armus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe say a sexual joke thats actually funny to get the conversation started, than get serious.
2006-12-15 07:51:36 · answer #4 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to take deep breath and do it! It's very important for each of you to know what is expected of this relationship!
2006-12-15 07:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make the first move
2006-12-15 07:50:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋