So... I got dumped a week ago. So I did what most sensible people would do I tried to move on. he wanted to still be "friends" so I answered his calls but I found it made it harder to talk to him because he would always say stuff about how I should date other people and how he hates women. Well.. I decided to stop answering his calls because it bothered me so much. He called me around 15 times each day. no voicmails. I finally answered on of his calls at 2 in the morning and he was crying begging for me back saying he made the "worst mistake of his life" and I said "no" that I wasn't ready to take him back. Well since then we have been talking the rest of this week and he keeps saying he loves me talks about the future sometimes but gives me mixed feelings and says he doens't want to talk about "us" what does this mean should I just start ignoring his calls ? i'm sick of these games but i still love him and maybe wnat to be with him in the future if things progress.
2006-12-15 07:37:21 · 12 answers · asked by LIZ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he didnt like that you were ignoring him and that's why he had that crying reaction. And now that your talking to him again he gives mixed feelings. I think you were better off ignoring his calls, move on! Life's too short to waste time on men who are confused. You either know what you want or dont, it should be simple.
2006-12-15 07:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by dazydrew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him straight forward you don't want head games, either he wants to be with you or he doesn't. All or nothing. Being friends after a relationship rarely works because someone will get hurt, especially when one starts seeing someone new. Don't let him toy with your heart. Yes, you love him but he hasn't given you any time to adjust. Tell him to give you time, not to call you. If he respects your wishes, then maybe there is a chance but if he still calls over and over again you need to walk away.
2006-12-15 07:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him and avoid his call, he just play with you maybe his new gf dump him or something this guy sound like player stay away and move on never talk to him again cause the more you talk to him the more it going hard for you to forget him
2006-12-15 07:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run.............................. or get use to this behavior since it won't stop..... he has major issues and your allowing it to get even worst -
He called fifteen times in one day! turn off the phone or change phone numbers! talk about a controlling possessive person.... oh and why the heck did you answer at 2am in the morning! turn-off the phone - and if he comes over to the house call the police....
2006-12-15 07:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by D. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the saying goes--"you dont' realize what you have, until its gone." If its meant to be, you will get back together. If you have doubt, then go with your gut feeling and discontinue the relationship. Make yourself happy and don't feed into his games.
2006-12-15 07:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they progress into him leaving you again... this is what happened, he probably cheated on you and he liked this other girl soo much that he dumped you, and she actually had no intention of making it a relationship, and then starts the promises and crying like a bi tch
2006-12-15 07:41:35 · answer #6 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes leading u on move on
2006-12-15 07:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by vLiiCiiOuS&YoUnG oRiiGiiNaL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres planty of guys in the future so don't worry, think of it this way he didn't dump u, u dump him.
2006-12-15 07:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a shot but be on the defensive
2006-12-15 07:41:38 · answer #9 · answered by canuckclint 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go and move on
2006-12-15 07:41:13 · answer #10 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋