to me about this other girl after i confrounted him and told him i know cuz i checked his voicemail and herd her but i wasnt thinking about calling her back all i was thinking was if i erase his messege he wont call her back she left amessege 2 times as far as i know but i checked his text messege and found her # she wrote him 2 messeges and i called her and it went stright to her voicemail and it was the same voice so i told him but i was prouncing her name wrong he has other girl friend that i know about and im kool with but why didnt he tell me about this girl he says cuz he know im gonna trip cuz i dont know her i know that girl has a man and she lives out of town but why did this have to go behind my back and he lied to me about it should i be mad i dont know what do do this is the second time ive caught him doing sumthin he wasnt sopost to be doing the first time he wrote his x that he wanted to kiss her
2006-12-15 06:52:23 · 21 answers · asked by nena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You not only need a new boyfriend, you need a life. What you're doing with his messages is not only silly, but a waste of time.
2006-12-15 06:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're totally fine that he's planning to screw her behind your back, because that's what he is ramping up to do? If you want to keep playing his sick games, I suggest you do the same for him -- find a guy you find sexy and start messaging him and see if this attitude flies both ways. My guess is that it's okay for him to screw her but it's not okay for you to flirt with other men.
Step back a minute and look at this from a REAL friend's point of view. What would your friend tell you to do? If the answer is anything other than "Oh My God, Dump Him Right Now!" your friend isn't really your friend.
This is where you get the call blocking, change the locks, buy the pint of Ben and Jerry's, and bring home the stack of depressing chick flicks.
You need to dump his butt before he brings an STD home as your Valentine's Day present then accuses YOU of giving it to him.
2006-12-15 07:00:25 · answer #2 · answered by Jess B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly, to procure your self into an exciting difficulty this is for confident. right it is what you should do, even although you're engaged on a stability as we talk.. it doesn't remember. i ought to by no skill opt for someone to lie about some thing like that to me. you do not opt for him to understand you study the letter (which will make issues worse) Is there someone think ofyou've got "heard talking about it" or some thing? both way, it desires to be addressed. tell him you should talk about it only once & then by no skill back. I actually do not imagine this courting is properly worth staying in by way of the undeniable fact that is in elementary words going to get more advantageous complicated, believe me. He truly desires to artwork on himself and his issues.
2016-11-30 19:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't read your entire question. There was no punctuation at all, it was just one long run on sentence. That makes it very hard to read and understand what you are saying But your question seems to be what to do about a boyfriend who lies. My answer is dump him. You should never stay with someone who lies to you and cheats on you. You can't trust someone like that and you deserve better.
2006-12-15 07:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, First, you should of had trust beforehand, by searching through his phone, it shows that you didn't have trust. Secondly if he has lied about this, what else has he lied about? Ask yourself that. Without trust, no relationship will ever work. You should forget about this guy and move on. Good Luck
2006-12-15 07:04:05 · answer #5 · answered by Danelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL:
(sorry , i didn't read your whole explaination, just the first couple lines.)
seriously. this same sh** happened to me back in April, and I gave the jerk ANOTHER chance....yea, that turned into a few more months of crying, distrust and anger.
here I am in WONDERFUL december and we've FINALLY broke-up, it is soooo much btter than that stupid drama that I had to deal with when i was with that jerk.
leave him now, i say, but if you need more HURT to be sure of it, stay with him, you know what I mean????
2006-12-15 06:58:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's serious. Well I have found the best way to get the truth out of someone .. is to ask questions, giving him the information that you know for sure so he can't lie about it... if you don't like what you hear, then that is a personal decision that you have to make for yourself.
2006-12-15 06:56:43 · answer #7 · answered by Mizhani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you hungry? You must be, or else you would not have eaten your punctuation marks (full stops, commas, question marks, ect.).
You have stated that you are fine with him having other girls, then there should be no harassing of his phones or him in particular.
You need to decide what type of relationship you want and then discuss it with him.
Good Luck!
2006-12-15 07:09:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whew, that's one long story. LOL Seriously, dump him. He's a liar and a cheat and will continue to do this as long as you let him. Get out of this relationship before your in too deep. Find a guy who will treat you right. They are out there. Good Luck.
2006-12-15 06:57:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
From 16 years of experience don't go looking in his stuff unless you want to take care of business when you find what your looking for . It will just tear you up inside & make it hard for you to love & trust anyone.
2006-12-15 06:59:37 · answer #10 · answered by "karma" 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋