i am the uggliest girl in school!?

Question

i feel like i am the uggliest girl in school! i want to look different! I have curly hair and brown eyes i have a tannish sort of skin color and i have a lot of cleavege! help

Answer 1

first of all i'll tell u something. DON'T EVER THINK THIS WAY.
trust me i've been through this, the whole "omg, i'm an oger" thing. it's like being through hell.
and i'll tell u something, over summer i spend so much time boosting up my self esteem. and when i came back, it was totally different. out of a grumpy looser, i turned into sum1 who's fun to be with. and i didn't care how i looked, i was just proud of who i was.
u don't have to change the way u look to feel prettier, trust me u'll always haev somethin gto wine about. it's all about attitude.
i once heard some famous person say "when a girl loves herself, there's so much energy coming that she's irresistible"
so just chill, forget about the way u look and just enjou, trust me it'll be like a different world.
besides u don't even sound ugly to me, i donno why ui think ur

Answer 2

Oh, hon, most every girl feels like that at some point in their lives. You need to be kind to yourself and think nice thoughts about yourself. When you start telling yourself you are ugly, you unknowingly do things to make that belief come true. Find something you like about yourself and concentrate on that, then let it grow. If you can start believing you are pretty, then you will begin to look that way too. Work with what you have! Have you noticed that a lot of girls will want what they don't have? Some will get perms because they want their straight hair curly, some will get product and irons to make their curly hair straight. Some will change their hair color, or even skin color (tanning lotion) and so on. Wear clothes and make-up that compliment your eye color. Big brown eyes are beautiful. Style your hair that shows off those curls. Know that women will spend thousands to enhance their breasts, like you already have. Make what you already have work for you. Nothing is prettier than self confidence! Work on your inside (your head and heart) first. People will be drawn to you (even if you don't look like Barbie) if you like yourself and respect yourself.

Answer 3

Honey, why do you think you're ugly? You shouldn't think like that. How old are you? Maybe you could get some highlights in your hair or something like that but since I assume you have dark hair I wouldn't recommend lightening it completely. It can be very damaging unless you go darker. You can also go to a department store at the mall and ask one of the ladies at the make up counter to recommend some make up and application tips for you. Wear things that make you feel pretty but you want to keep it classy too. Cleavage is nice to have but you don't want that to be the only thing that people notice about you. Of course, I always feel better about myself when I am working out so maybe you can take up a sport or something. Good luck!

Answer 4

I have a feeling that you're not nearly as ugly as you say, even though you may honestly perceive yourself like that.
People can be their own worst critic. Find the things you like about yourself and focus on those.

Answer 5

I think many girls feel like the ugliest girl at school at one time or another. I know that I did. I also had the cleavage issue and was chubby! I would go to a good hair salon and start with a makeover there. There is no substitute for feeling good about your hair for a girl! Also, get a good fitting jacket that minimizes your bust and emphasizes your waist. Lastly, everyone has a good feature. Decide what yours is and play it up. Not everyone will be the homecoming queen but all of us can be happier with ourselves. That comes from within!

Answer 6

First cleavage will only get you the attention of the wrong kind of people. 2nd a truly beautiful person starts within. Its about being confident in yourself. Realize that you are beautiful...Sit down and make a list of the things you like and don' t like about yourself. For all the things that you can change set a goal to change it and all the things you can't don't worry about it. Maybe you are simply a late bloomer or maybe the people you are looking to fit in with are just too shallow to recognize your great personality. Hang in there. After high school, it won't matter if you were head cheerleader or Gleek Club President. Let your personality shine and forget about what everyone thinks about you and love yourself for who you are.

Answer 7

What?? no one, and I mean NO ONE, is ugly..some may look prettier than others, but no one is truly ugly.

I suggest you look at yourself in the mirror. Really look. Tell yourself what you like about yourself and find your best features(my best features is my back, my eyes, chin and lips). Try and enchance theese. Look in beauty magazines or go to a place they sell makeup and ask them for pointers.

Beauty is all about what's inside, and that means to bring your personality in the open!
Try to get a haircut that matches your personality. By good hairproducts.
Take a clean out of your wardrobe. Keep the clothes that look good on you and that matches your personality. Try adding some accesories to basic clothes. A scarf around the hair, the waist or anywhere gives you more an edge. And there is millions of ways you can express yourself through your clothes.

Drink alot of water, get your feet up and excercise(if you already are, continue). Use lotion and clense your skin.

And most important.. Don't try to change who you are, just try to find out who you are, and show it!

Answer 8

I would not recommend doing ANYTHING to yourself to make you look more "beautiful". I see a lot of people recommending that you straighten your hair -- I have curly hair as well and am always shocked at the people who straighten their hair on a regular basis. You just need to take care of it.

Just take care of yourself, wash your face, brush your teeth... the only little bit of advice I could give is that (at least in my experience) if you take a shower at night and cover your hair in a towel and let it dry while you're sleeping, you'll usually have shinier, more distinct curls.

Hold yourself as if you think you're beautiful. Realize the good traits you have. Unless you really look a beast (and I think you would know if you really did) then people will start seeing you differently because of your attitude and you will feel better about yourself. On second thought, even if you really did look a beast... you could probably achieve it. Attitude, attitude, attitude, my dear.

Answer 9

Some people see beauty from the outside, but the people that matter are the ones that see it from the inside. It's your personality that you should be worried about. Feel confident in yourself, take a little pride in your appearance without worrying too much, and your personality will be what people see. You can't change the way you look but you can change the way people see you. And remember, you're always beautiful to someone :)

Answer 10

Big is beautiful!!! Havin you heard!!! Not saying you are big. But having a lot of cleavage is a big advantage in this century. Believe me, if you think you are ugly than it is alway some one else that look worst than you. So never think that you look ugly. If you have a good heart there is no ugliest inside and that is what count. People sterotype too much, it does not matter what people say as long as you are happy.