my ex keeps telling me he loves me and we have even had sex a couple times but hes still with a girl how can i convince him to leave her and come back to me i have already told him i love him and i aint giving up, and honnestly guys do you think i shuold persue him?
2006-12-15 05:55:45 · 12 answers · asked by lkng4lv14892 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is your ex... move on. Is he really worth competing over? To relieve a lot of your stress and torment, just move on. Don't look back. I mean really... I love you but, I'm banging another girl? Do not pursue someone who isn't looking for you. He obviously found someone else. It's time that you do the same.
2006-12-15 06:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by slobberknocker_usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very hard question. But i've been in this situation before and at the end I ended up without him. He ended up with a new chick instead of me and the girl that he was seeing. Give up because if he loved you he would be with you. He's just using you because of you convience and he's knows that you're willing to do any and everything to be with him. Trust me because when I was in that situation I was losing my mind until I finally woke up and smelled the coffee. Now i'm over it and i'm doing good. Not only does my ex have someone else but he also has another girl on the side just like he had me. The games keeps going on and on.
2006-12-15 06:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by Foreveryoung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having the same problem and i got my ex back.Take him some were and sit down and talk to him about it and let him know how u really feel and he will soon to know that he lost a great person and come running back to u!!!!
watch for sign that tell u that he still likes you but wont Amity it
good luck
2006-12-15 06:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by amanda p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he is using you!!! He is with another girl; and, if he wanted to be with just you, then he would have dumped the other girl already! He is showing the "true" him. He is not a man!!! He is cheating on his girlfriend and leading you on! He does not care about your feelings! Please stop being the "wham bam thankyou mam" girl!! You need to let this loser go and find someone who whats just you!!! You deserve sooo much better!!!
2006-12-15 06:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur just a booty call. im sorry he's not going to leave her. when his gf dont give him any he know's that he can just call u and tell u that he loves u!!! dont mess with him anymore
2006-12-15 05:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump HIm
2006-12-15 05:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you, he wouldn't be with that other girl. he is using your feelings for him as free sex. move on . . you deserve better.
2006-12-15 05:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_carmel_angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just back off......if he wants to be with you for you and not what is in between your legs then he will get rid of her.....cut him off and then see what he does
2006-12-15 05:58:36 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to break up with her. its probably not true, since he maybe wants to play with both of you.
2006-12-15 06:02:58 · answer #9 · answered by flowergirlangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is follow your heart, it usually knows the way
2006-12-15 05:59:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋