bec if my baby dies befour it is born what should i do i dont have any job that i can do bec i have a learning problems no im not dumb it just hard or me to do some stuff but anyway how do i get some money so i can start to buy stuff for my baby
2006-12-15 05:47:45 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
AND YES I CAN TAKE CARE OF MY BABY .
2006-12-15 06:00:21 · update #1
The first thing you need to do is go to your local family court and get the paper work for a dna test and child support for when the baby is born.
I am also due in June. I am due the 1st. Where do you live. You can email me at crazziegrl14@yahoo.com or talk to me on yahoo crazziegrl14 and I can help you figure out places what will provide with baby stuff for you.
2006-12-15 05:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by crazziegrl14 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know here in lubbock texas the "Cingular call center" here has a day care in the building. You might check into something like that. Or, you could start baby sitting other people kids for some extra money? You can deliver papers in the morning, and bring you baby?
As far as your learning problems? Did you finish High School? I hate to say this, but you really don't have to be smart to get a job. (i have worked around a lot of dumb people) You just need to know the right people. But there are jobs you CAN get. And if your Learning problem is really a bad, you might can get disablity money.
The father of you child HAS to give you money, unless he signs his rights away. Which, he sounds like a jerk anyway, so i would get rid of him. If the Father does have money, i would find a lawyer, and get it. (most lawyers you don't pay, till you get money. And you can find free ones)
You can give the baby up for apotion, if you really don't think you will have enough money to take care of yourself and the baby.
But, there are lots of programs in your city for people like you. Just look on the internet, you should be able to find something.
My heart goes out to you! I am due in July. If you need to talk, just e-mail me. Take care.
2006-12-21 11:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have learning disabilities that prevent you from working, then you can get help through your state's social services. However, there are jobs that people can do regardless of their abilities. There are likely many different agencies in your area depending on the size of your community that can help you with your basic needs. Please consider adoption as an option for your baby. It is the most loving thing you can do for him or her if you are not in a position to properly care for it. Giving a baby up for adoption does not mean you don't love it or want it, but you are making the best choice for your baby's future. You can contact a crisis pregnancy clinic, they will be glad to help you. Look under Abortion Alternatives in the yellow pages of your phone book and give them a call.
2006-12-15 13:58:15 · answer #3 · answered by sevenofus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While your on yahoo, search "rights for pregnant women". There is a list of websites that have info on how you can make the father pay you child support and how you can get money for you and the baby while your pregnant and after the baby is born. Programs are available such as WIC which pays for formula and programs that can help you pay for diapers or daycare. Also Medicare can help cover the cost of the labor and the hospital bills. Dont worry, you have many options.
2006-12-21 16:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by Brooklyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, get help from family and friends. You should call your local welfair office and talk to them about whats going on. You can get foodstamps,WIC,Medicaid,Maybe even get on a housing list. They will also MAKE the father pay you child support! Good luck hon' get it all togther now, that baby will come fast and once it does theres no going back!
2006-12-15 13:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by BOOTS! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of jobs that you should be able to do, even if it is just a bus girl or dishwasher. Go to you local planned parenthood and they should have a list of charities also see your local public aid office they can help too. Good Luck
2006-12-15 13:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by mdoud01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact your local DHHR and WIC they should be able to help you and if the father is refusing to help in any way demand a paternity test and you will get child support out of him whether he likes it or not
2006-12-15 13:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by nickieandsarahsmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to Social Services.
2006-12-15 13:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by Roberta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him on child support hes going to have to pay they deduct it from his paycheck. and if he doesn't pay he will go to jail or pay all of what he owes. like my baby daddy owes me more than 4 thousand dollars depends how old ur baby is
2006-12-15 19:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get help from friends and family, and get set up on WIC, medicade, and have social serices help you.
2006-12-15 13:50:10 · answer #10 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋