she found out i failed all of my semester college courses, and i told my boyfriend i aced them....she told her boyfriend who then told my boyfriend...thing is i told her not to tell on me....what should i do? i really love my boyfriend...oh and we were going to spend new year at the beach..my friend...her bf, me and my bf
2006-12-15 05:37:35 · 9 answers · asked by chicken doggie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-12-15 05:56:26 · update #1
you're not gonna like my answer...
your friend shouldn't have told on you but you shouldn't have lied in the first place. healthy relationships are founded on honesty. even if he never found out (which he probably would have anyway), every time you lie to him you are disrespecting him, and that adds up until it effects how you feel towards him.
2006-12-15 05:49:29 · answer #1 · answered by m33how 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She didn't tell on you to your boyfriend. She told her boyfriend, and he broke her confidence. Their trust issue is nothing to do with you. What's more important is, you lied to your boyfriend. Not good. If you lie to him about this, what else will you lie to him about? If you love him, you shouldn't be holding things from him. That's wrong and breaks the trust in the relationship.
2006-12-15 05:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off why would you lie to your boyfriend about it? Second, she doesnt sound very trustworthy, 3rd maybe you should rethink your ways of going about things because now your boyfriends is going to have a hard time believing you when you tell him things and your friend obviously cant be trusted.
2006-12-15 05:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friend if she still wants you as a friend. If she says yes, than let her know that you aren't happy with the circumstances. You probably should call it quits with her friendship, but I'd ask her about what happened, just to see how she answers you.
2006-12-15 05:43:42 · answer #4 · answered by ladyravenwing2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats really mean of your friend. maybe she was doing it in you own favor?? doubt it. anyways, tell him that you didnt want him tp have to worry about you so you told him what was easiest to hear. Then just be a little more affectionate so he'll forget about it. ;)
2006-12-15 05:43:01 · answer #5 · answered by punk rock princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends don't do things like that. You need to talk to her and maybe find a new friend.
2006-12-15 05:43:02 · answer #6 · answered by Tab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to your friend. A friend would not do that. You may need to find someone else. That is really cold!
2006-12-15 05:40:26 · answer #7 · answered by ~College Lovin~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say sorry to your bf.
that you didnt want him to worry about you
which was why uu lied.
try to put on an innocent face
so he`ll be more soft-hearted.
2006-12-15 05:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by lilbr0wnsuga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your head out your a**, stop lying and get your grades up. Bascially, grow the hell up
2006-12-15 05:42:02 · answer #9 · answered by waveman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋