There have been a few times where I'll get hard while making out w/ her, but lately it just sits there as if I'm doing a crossword puzzle. She has a really sexy figure and I think her face is pretty, and we get along and have a good time together, but I don't know, *it* just seems bored when we make out. We haven't gone further and I think it's too early in the relationship to do so. So what do 'ya think? Do you guys normally get excited from making out, or does it need to go further for you to get up?
2006-12-15 05:37:26 · 23 answers · asked by someguy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lol at people that think I'm gay because of this. Get a life people.
2006-12-15 05:54:04 · update #1
No. Maybe she's just not freaking on you right. Maybe she hasn't hit your spot right!
2006-12-15 05:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by redbone 3 · 0⤊ 6⤋
Yes guys do normally experience excitement when making out.
And if you do find her physically attractive there may be a medical problem.
Being low on testosterone is no such an unusual thing.
See your doctor, they have meds for that. And they make a difference as apparent as night and day.
Or it could be stress. Are you feeling a lot of stress lately.
It could also be that you may require some other sort of sexual stimulation such as her being more aggressive or maybe you giving yourself permission (as well as her of course) to be more aggressive/passionate.
Sex is a little dirty only if it is done right. lol But that's just my point of view.
Anyhoo, examine your own inner true desires. Think, really think about what gets you sexually excited. When you come up with what really excites you talk to her about it. If it's not a psycho-sexual issue see the doctor. It could well be low testosterone or perhaps even a med you are on. There is always the Viagra type drugs as well but consult your doctor first.
2006-12-15 06:10:11 · answer #2 · answered by octopussy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to understand that makin' out is a form of foreplay and right now both of you right now are not ready to raise the bar. Some guys kiss so "politely" that the effect is negligible. I think a woman would love to feel the earth move with a kiss or kisses that you give her. If your made out differently, would it make a difference, I think so. Also, how does she feel? Guys get excited through all sorts of stimuli. Kissing got me excited because it told me what else she wanted. You say that it's too early in the relationship to go further. Does she feel that way or is she waiting for you to jump her bones? The right time is a feeling, not a finite period of time.
2006-12-15 08:03:21 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look your not gay, your just not arroused with making out, sometimes it gets old and your body is no longer excited, othertimes, its just not kicking off sparks,maybe she has a flaw that you pay to much attention to, and scratch the beginning, you may be gay, but only you would know if you were attracted to same sex. But if it works sometimes, then those sometimes are probably when oyur body wants to go further, or you really gotta pee. If you don't do nething after so many times of getting hard your body may just be sick of the tease.
2006-12-15 05:46:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well alot of guys do get hard while making out but usually that is because all they think about is getting some booty. If you think it is too early in the relationship then you know that you are not always thinking about sex when you make out. This is actually a good thing because your girlfriend won't think that you are trying to jump in her pants the first thing and she will admire and respect that. ;)
2006-12-15 05:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by Barbara W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first response to this would be to make sure there isn't something physically going on that bould be the reason for this. If you are attracted to you girlfriend and get excited when you are making out with her then I would think that it is something else, however from what you said, it seems that you may not really be into the relationship and this could be the reason....GOOD LUCK
2006-12-15 05:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by Ginger P 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here's my take. The first time it happened you probably were not in the mood. No big deal. The second time you were too worried that it might not happen. Now you are paranoid and have people here speculating you are gay. LOL....
Bottom line: Quit thinking too much and enjoy the moment.
2006-12-15 05:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by Tori 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
age and health are factors that affect a man's erection. Get a physical and talk to your doctor. If everything checks out then maybe you could try one of the new drugs for that purpose. Could be you are not really attracted to her but I doubt that is the reason.
2006-12-15 05:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by Nancy O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably not getting aroused during the make out sessions because your body has come to the conclusion that nothing is going to happen. Dont rush things. This means you are developing some self control. Great thing, dont let your penis run your life, you should have control over it. God bless****
2006-12-15 05:39:49 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Wow - all the guys I've ever been involved w/were sporting wood if we were making out. Sounds like you're just not interested in going there w/her.
2006-12-15 05:42:39 · answer #10 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
um I don't know how old you are but if you guys are only making out and thats all you plan to do you should not get an errection but whatever. If you want an erection haveher give you a hand job....
2006-12-15 05:41:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋