okay, i like this guy, we hung out twice, i work with him, and i can't tell how he feels but it's been weeks and I can't take it anymore, i need to know. Any way to tell? I'm too nervous to make a move, it would be awkward to be shot down by someone at work
2006-12-15 05:34:37 · 19 answers · asked by Bakes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think if he were interested in you that way you would for sure know unless he is like you.....i would put the move on him and do it in a way that you can get out of it if he shows no interest in you
2006-12-15 05:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have been seeing someone for a year and a half that I met at work. It was hard at first because neither one of us wanted to admit our feeling because of the work situation. After a couple of months I couldn't take it anymore. We were discussing weekend plans and he mentioned he may take his son to this local go-kart place. Well, I decided that was a good day to take my son to the same place. The kids hit it off great and we took it from there. I understand that we were lucky to have the circumstances we did, but hopefully this will give you some ideas. The most important thing is that both of you need to be able to separate you work life from your personal life.
2006-12-15 13:44:24 · answer #2 · answered by tmac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that it would be awkward to be shot down by someone at work! That's one of the main reasons you should not get involved with someone at your workplace. Especially true if you like your job. Been there done that and it caused me to quit my job. Needless to say, the relationship didn't last that long. No matter what anyone tells you, you will most likely do what you want! Just remember to be careful!
2006-12-15 13:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by scoodlelou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's blushing or smiling at you everytime you look at him then chances are he likes you. Just hang out with him again and see where his heart is at girl. Ask some questions and tell him how you feel if he don't feel the same then just stay friends. Even though they say,"Never get your honey where you make your money!" Good Luck!
2006-12-15 13:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen very carefully; YOU HAVE TO LET HIM KNOW YOU'RE INTERESTED. Ask him about his likes, dislikes, but carefully. If he's into you, depending on the job, he probably is too afraid you'll scream sexual harassment if he tries to get romantically involved.
Speaking from personal experience, there's a lot of girls I'm hot for that I work with, but I'll never say anything, because I don't want to take the chance that they'll get hurt/offended and try to get me fired. Job > a**.
If you go through with this, and you get hurt or jealous and screw with his livelihood, you deserve to get herpes.
2006-12-15 13:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well you could go out to dinner one day and tell him how you feel but this is on thing you have to remember and that is you can't be afraid of rejection. If he does shoot you down just get back on your feet and dust yourself off. But you can't hold backyour feelings and wait until it's too late, the best thing to do is to give it a try.
2006-12-15 13:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by Iyanna A 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He'll give you signals if he does...smiling at you, tell you secrets, flirt with you. Hell, just make a move and see what happens. If you guys hang out and he doesn't give you ANY signals, then chances are that he's not into you. Good luck tho!
2006-12-15 13:39:48 · answer #7 · answered by Greg S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok think of this...if he does shoot you down at work...you still work there...and your going to see him everytime when you goto work...when I was in retail I liked this guy in the stock room...I didnt tell him how i felt until he quit..well only nice things that I thought about him...but I think he got the hint I really liked him and he was all smiling at me for the rest of the day...just becareful...think of what may happen at work if he were not to feel that way about you
2006-12-15 13:39:45 · answer #8 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only way to know is to ask. Be careful though because relationships that work together can be stressful and difficult to make work. Too much time together is not necessarily a good thing. "Distance makes the heart grow fonder" meaning you need time to miss each other to appreciate each other. Good luck!
2006-12-15 13:36:32 · answer #9 · answered by sweetlaughter434 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
He's NOT INTERESTED!!!! He would have made a move already. You went out twice. It's been weeks. He doesn't like you. Get over it.
2006-12-15 13:45:04 · answer #10 · answered by Adonis 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋