okay so here is my situation im with a guy for over a year now before our so called aniversary he cheated on me and well i found out about ift was mad as hell but a month latter he insisted that we should go back out together to work things out. so we did now i found out once more that he is cheating on me with a girl that is really ugly so yeah but thats not the point i know this because of his myspce he has her there on his top friends and shes always leaving coments that she leaves that she cant wait till she sees her ect. i havent told him that i know because i want to get even any suggestions? now remember about the myspace thing he doesnt knows that i actually check mine and his family think that im the only girl in his life
2006-12-15 05:34:29 · 54 answers · asked by fabylo_88 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do the same, believe me, it will be the best to do in your situation..☺
2006-12-15 05:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can stoop down to his level and cheat if you think that will help. I just think it will be a waste of time considering this relationship will go nowhere. The best thing to do is just leave him a message on his phone or better yet myspace. Tell him it's over and to lose your phone #. Don't even give him a hint why you want nothing more to do with him. I had an ex cheat on me. He had no clue I knew anything. He called the night I found out and I played it cool. He acted like everything was great until I told him that we were over and I never wanted to talk or see him again. He couldn't stand not knowing why. He called friends and family only for them to tell him nothing. It's funny because years after this I ran into him at the store and he just put his head down and walked out of the store. I think I got my point acrossed to him, that I didn't care one bit. I wouldn't give him the pleasure of knowing he hurt me. Cheating is where I draw the line. I recognize that he couldn't have loved me to begin with if he cheated. Cheaters know there are consequences to cheating. So when they do it anyways it tells you they don't care about those consequences, so really they don't care about losing you. Good Luck & God Bless!
2006-12-15 05:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by zero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If 'cheating' is really a problem for you, why would you want to perpetuate the situation by looking for a way to get even. Either leave the a s s h o l e or adopt another lifestyle besides the make believe world of myspace!
2006-12-15 05:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sholdn't try to get revenge, the only thing you need to know is that what goes around, comes around! Also from what you wrote you don't even have enough evidence that he cheated on you! This (ugly) girl from myspace could just be a girl that likes him so she flirting by writting all thoses messages. What you need to do is find out more about this 'supposed' relationship that he's having with this girl. If he is infact cheating then you need to leave-and for good this time! The best way to know is to investigate-wether it be with phone records, recipits-something besides a myspace message! If all ask fails confront him about her, like you already know something is going on, that always gets a confession! Say something like "I forgave you before, I just want us to be honest with me so just tell me" then when he confesses kick him to the curb and don't look back!!!
2006-12-19 03:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by moks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could get back at him by leaving him alone and moving on with your life. Realizing that you deserve better and going out and getting it. Leave him alone, once may be a mistake, twice is just a lack of caring and selfishness. Move on and find someone who will treat you with respect and love you and hold the same values and ideas of what being in a reationship is really about. Caring about the other person and going out of your way not to hurt their feelilngs. God bless****
2006-12-15 05:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all the best way to get even is to get a new man and leave that no good piece of crap where he is throw his clothes out the house tell him u know about his trick on the side and u have some1 new in ur life and don't need him girl if u want to get even that is the best way and u come out not looking nasty because u did not do anything with the new guy yet lol get even and tell all. Post it on ur my space and let him see it have it of u and the guy making out major tongue action. lol bye
2006-12-15 05:45:09 · answer #6 · answered by ceecee_holmes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have tried. Have faith in yourself to know that you did what you could to to salvage this relationship. At this point it would appear that he truly does not care for you by having other relationships with other girls. Revenge really feels good in the short term. But revenge is never cut and dry. It begets possible retaliation. So try to steer clear of that path. Have comfort in the fact that you tried you're best and just move on. Remember that you are only. Have faith in yourself to move on.
2006-12-15 05:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by synapticeclipse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the saying goes "once a dog always a dog"! You do not need to be in relationship with someone you can't trust!! You deserve better than this!!! Why are still with him? Are you afraid to be alone? Well, being alone is better than hanging out with this loser!!! There is always something around the corner! Dump this guy and start dating again...you will find someone better!!!
2006-12-15 05:41:11 · answer #8 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
walk out+take everything hes got. or if you want actual revenge.....
1) hide fish around his home, somewhere where it will have rotted by the time he finds it
2) massage chilli oil into his *****
3) do the whole shave eyebrows off, swear word into his hair when hes drunk asleep
4) cheat on him
although revenge rarely works. it just further complicates problems. Afterall if you cheat on him, then it becomes checkmate as he can call you a cheater to
2006-12-15 05:38:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to forget him and move on with your own life. When he see's how happy you are .... and what he could have had....that will be the best revenge.
Revenge will only keep you emotionally tied to him and you are left with a relationship with no trust. Don't play the revenge game because there is really no winner!
2006-12-15 05:42:33 · answer #10 · answered by Tori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is not the answer.
Show some class and leave him alone. You may find better. It is a 40% to 60 % chance. I do not know which one is on your side.
2006-12-15 05:39:49 · answer #11 · answered by Dave S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋