I have this boyfriend named David, I love him to death but he cheated on me once. I'm not thin and he cheated on me with a really thinny and pretty girl? Is that why he cheated on me? Because I'm not thin or pretty enough for him? I treat him very well: with respect, love and I'm really caring. I'm smart, funny and all that. I just need to know if it was for my appereance or not. Or, for anything else. By the way, my name is Cristina. I need advice and fast!!!!
2006-12-15 05:29:28 · 14 answers · asked by Cristina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Could really stay with him knowing he was unfaithful? Don't get down on yourself. Even Heidi Klum got cheated on and she's a beautiful supermodel. You deserve better. As cliche' as it sounds, it's on the inside that counts. So what if your not really skinny? You want a man who is going to love you no matter what your body type is. There's more to love than image. Does David seem remorseful?
Also, it sounds like you don't love yourself. You can't find true love until you learn to love yourself. There's no shame in being alone. Be picky. Don't settle for some guy who doesn't appreciate you, because he doesn't deserve your love. Make Cristina #1 in your life. Anyone who doesn't do the same isn't worth your time!
please e-mail me if you need someone to talk to. It takes allot of strength to leave someone, but you'll be happy you did.
2006-12-15 05:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ BuffaloGirl ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cristina
First off stop thinking that your not good enought! with that attitude any guy will cheat on you!
be Proud of whoYOU are.. no some skinny chick!
I feel you are young and so is david.. there could be countless reasons why david cheated on you!
I'm not him i can't not give you an honest answer! but i will say low self esteem feeling like your not belonging. or just that im not good enough attitude tends to turn A LOT of people off! I would cheat on you with that attiude because i know i can get a way with it and you'llstill take me back and i can still walk all over you because your probley not a super model .,.. looks do matter but it's how you care for yourself not what size you are. And how much you Love yourself!
Coping.org should help you Cristina! It's text based!
I'm sure your smart !
2006-12-15 13:37:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he cheated on u bcoz ur not skinny then he is a shallow creature and doesn't deserve u however about the cheating part u love him that's why u gave him a 2nd chance however u dnt have to be fat or thin to be in ur situation every girl goes through this guys dont mind free sex they dnt know how to control(most of them are like that) how old r u guys see the thing is wen guys r young they r mostly shallow headed and want to have fun with many girls if the girl involved is pretty then they get a ego boost so it is possible but he hasn't left u so it must be a weak moment make sure it dosent happen again
2006-12-15 13:45:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Is that why he cheated on me? Because I'm not thin or pretty enough for him? I treat him very well: with respect, love and I'm really caring. I'm smart, funny and all that."
Probably. If you're not what he wants, he's a tool for settling, but that's not the point. The point is, if you treat him well and make everything comfy cozy for him, he will get BORED, and he will want to have sex with someone EXCITING.
2006-12-15 13:35:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello I have been here a time or to myself. It is kind of hardto talk about but here I go....I had a neighbor friend who lived one door over from me since we were little.We date on and of for years on and off. He always wanted me to stay home we never took me anywhere-no date just one birthday a card and candy.He always was a ladies man.Afew years later on and off again I find out he had afew girls "he said shewas afriend". Now four years later he wants to get married Ialways knew I cared for him But he did not feel the same. To answer your question YOU DO NOT NEED HIM . IT IS NOT U IT IS HIM!!! LOOK IN THE MIRROR AND TELL YOURSELF'' I AM PRETTY - BETTER WITHOUT HIM''.
2006-12-15 13:58:03 · answer #5 · answered by GLAMBOYANT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on you becasue he is a JERK and if he really loved you that much he would ave never had cheated on you. Go get yourself a better man than David because he cheated on you go dump his sorry butt.
2006-12-15 13:35:22 · answer #6 · answered by KewlieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its Def not your appearance If He didnt think you were attractive anymore then he wouldnt cheat, he would leave for the " skinnier - prettier , girl"... He may think your beautiful but he doesnt respect you, so dumping his sorry A** might be something to consider...
Think about it like this ;
Fool you once, shame on him,
Fool you twice, shame on you...
2006-12-15 13:41:02 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Asker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him fast! If he can't love you for who you are, then he does not deserve you! The right man for you will find your beautiful and irresistable no matter what you look like on the outside . . he should love you for who u r on the inside. Remember, no man is worth your tears . . . and the one who is . . . would never make you cry.
Good Luck!!!
2006-12-15 13:33:03 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_carmel_angel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
girl it doesn't matter how you look.. he using you and if you could see that you would even care if the girl looked better than you..... just break up with him and move on... it's the only right thing to do
2006-12-15 13:32:54 · answer #9 · answered by victoria n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. If you hold on to him, he will cheat on you again. Dump him.
2006-12-15 13:35:22 · answer #10 · answered by mvas800 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋