why do women with kids think theyre so much better than those that dont?

Answer 1

Because they can tuck their titties into their pants to keep them warm?

Answer 2

I'm sorry if you've been given that impression by some women with children, but you shouldn't assume all women with kids feel that way.
I don't think I'm any better then a woman who has no children or one who never wants children. I think that having a family is a personal choice, and I would much rather someone not have a baby if they don't really want one, then to have one and resent it. And what kind of person would think they were better then people who just aren't ready to have children, or God forbid, wants them but a medical problem prevents them from having a child.
For those who feel like motherhood isn't for them, it's their choice and I respect it. Society often makes women feel like they have to be mothers in order to really get something out of life. I became a mother because I wanted to and I love it, but it doesn't make me better then someone who isn't a mom.

Answer 3

I am pregnant with #2 and I don't think at all that I'm better than women without children. However there is something to it..I feel I've become better since I am a mother because...first of all I know what true pain means, what it means to suffer for somebody out of love, I know now what it means to not to sleep at nights and forget about yourself when worry for your child. I know now what it means to give up my desires, plans, wishes and life - for somebody else, willingly and happily. I would have never become truly selfless without becoming a mother. So I guess there is some truth to it that you become a bit better and more selfless person than before. One without kids doesn't know what it means to be involved with something 24/7, not because you 'have to' but because it becomes your second nature. Women with children have other things to do like things that women without children have to do. Houseworks, cooking, grocery shopping, and many moms are working full time too. So if you're honest, you can see that a mother does a heck of a lot more than somebody who only needs to worry about her own needs (or other adults' needs like husband or partner..) that's totally different than having children that totally depend on you. So ...the answer is up to you. Maybe I feel like I am better than somebody who does not have kids. But it only applies for those women who choose to live for themselves, not for those who can't have children or not yet married. And yes, many times I get the exact opposite feeling from childless women..They look down on mothers, especially stay at home mothers. Like it was nothing. Well, one can try it for a day and we'll see if it's nothing. A mother is not only a mother but an early teacher and teacher for an entire life for her children...also a cook, also a house maid, also a nurse, also a tailor..and so much more. All of it for free..So think of the other side too before making assumptions..

Answer 4

I agree with Bubba...I have 3 kids and stay home with them and I get the feeling that a lot of my friends and even family think that they have a much more fulfilling life than me because they can do what they want when they want to without being tied down to kids. Personally I love my kids and I love being a Mom but I've NEVER intentionally thought I was better than someone that didn't have kids.

Answer 5

What makes you think women with kids think they're better? A thought like like that never crossed my mind ever and I'm a mom. I was in no rush to have my son, in fact, despite all the preparation I was still a little scared. After his birth, the troubles feeding, the sleepless nights, the sacrifices we made, makes a real case for never kids, but I'm still glad to be a mom and wouldn't change that ever.

Answer 6

I do not think I am better in general than other women- but I know I am better with children than "non-mothers" If you don't have kids yet, you will understand later-

I used to think I was great with kids before I had my own, but you do not understand patients until you are bottle or breast feeding every few hours, burps that are exorsist style all over you and the front room, runny poops that go from their bum to the back of their necks- and that is AFTER pregnancy-

pregnancy can be easy, but those last 3 months will kill you... no matter who you are- dont believe me? wait and see...remember my yahoo name, you can e-mail me about it later!

Answer 7

I really have no idea, i dont have kids and i have never met women who think they are better than the women without kids. My GUESS would be they feel like they have accomplished the most difficult by having kids and the women who dont have kids has not accomplished anything. just a guess.

Answer 8

I have two lil girls and have never felt I was better than a women with out a child. I have how ever seen this and infact been involved with this... I was 17 and babysitting a shild and the mother thought she was better than me perhaps she was at the time,, but i still think it was more a jeliouse thing that I got to spend the day with her shild and she had to work and because she made this sacrifice she felt she was a better person. This was my experiance.

Answer 9

I dont think I am better than women without kids. Although I do thnk women with kids are much stronger hahha All the stuff we learn to deal with and fix and all. Cmon show me a girl ( with a decent mom of course) who didnt think their mom was one of the best people in the world. I know I look up to my mom and have tons of respect for the things she did for me. So not all people think that we are better. I dont know where you get this from. Yo usound bitter...have some babies!

Answer 10

Some women are like that but not all I have twin girls and I don't believe I am better than women who don't have kids just busier. Enjoy your free time while you don't have kids and dont worry about those women who think they are better than you they probably dont have anything better to do than brag about how great their kids are so they try to shove it in your face.

Answer 11

Did you take a poll and the results showed moms think they are better or are you bitter about a bad experience with a mother? Most moms are not as you described. Don't assume that because one or two people act a certain way that they represent the rest of the world.