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My 3 1/2 year old daughter is moderatly delayed and she has a terrible habit of pinching EVERYONE to the point of bruises on me and my husband, when we dicipline her she does not seem to care and continues to do it more and more, with her delays I am not sure if she is getting what we are dicipling her for. So I am needing some advice on some ways to make this stop! Please help!

2006-12-15 05:24:21 · 12 answers · asked by SDP 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Toddler & Preschooler

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one of my daughters is developed mentally delayed and she would have the worse temper tantrums (I MEAN REALLY BAD some would last up to 15 or 20 Min's.) but that was over 13 years ago .She too would pinch others and a few not many "bite",and scratch,so on. But as soon as she started with speech therapy at the age of 21/2-3. she really did know what she was do and why she was being disciplined.this may sound harsh ;but it will stop very soon and less repeated,if everything she does in that manner ,"you do right back" not anyone ,else only you and spouse as the parents. be it was do as she do only back on to her NOT WITH ANY REAL INTENSITY BUT TO LET HER KNOW .(1.THAT'S NOT OK BEHAVIOR-her frustration's can not be taken out on others,in an hurtful way(2.only way to get the proper point across is to show ,that not going to get you or anyone else to understand what it is she's trying to say. Wish you luck.(by the way shes grown {my daughter} to be the most kind and most patience little lady. I m very proud of all she concord. she will graduate this2007!

2006-12-15 05:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by BBY&SSY 1 · 1 0

My boyfriend's 2 year old has the bad habbit to bite and slap. We're biting her back or slaping her back whenever she does it and she is starting to get the point (don't pinch your daughter to the point of leaving a mark, just to the point that she can feel that it hurts, she will eventually understand it)

2006-12-15 06:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by amarilysusa 6 · 1 0

Every time she pinches, stop her by pulling her hand away, tell her it is naughty then take her to your naughty corner, stair, chair and make her sit there for 3 minutes on her own.
After 3 minutes go to her tell her why she was put there and then forget it till the next time.
Every time she leaves the naughty stair put her back on it.

2006-12-15 05:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by madamspud 4 · 1 0

You have to keep talking to her and tell her that is not nice to pinch people. Another thing maybe you can pretend to cry and if it don't hurt and she might soften up and stop doing that.
good luck .

2006-12-15 06:13:45 · answer #4 · answered by speciallady 1 · 0 0

as you decipline her...constantly remind her why she is in trouble andask her why is she in trouble and what did she do to get in trouble.??? if that doesnt work....i know this is kinda harsh but fair.. so you should pinch her back...not too hard but enough to sting...as you pinch her say "how do you like getting pinched??" ,"i dont like it, no one does ..it hurts"!! "so stop it because im gonna pinch you back"... and trust me she wont like it and she WILL stop.

2006-12-15 05:36:05 · answer #5 · answered by LoVeLy 3 · 1 0

get rid of his hand from hair or dermis, gently yet firmly. Or get rid of in spite of physique area he's biting, gently yet firmly. Say "No! Be mushy!" firmly, yet no longer shouting. Repeat situations a million. Please, please, please do no longer stick to the different guy or woman's suggestion and hit the toddler. it particularly is cruel and could practice him no longer something. so a strategies by using fact the tooth grinding in in contact, I have not any theory. My son is commencing as much as do it, yet i've got observed that as each and each new tooth emerges he makes diverse noises and mouth gestures. So i desire that as he gets used to them, he strikes on from the grinding.

2016-10-15 00:21:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

pinch her, now NOT hard enough to mark but hard enough she feels it. i think most kids go thru it both of mine did and it worked on both. good luck and remember they grow out of most everything!

2006-12-15 05:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

mine started doing that also i have 6 let me tell ya every time she pinches do it alittle harder to her every time and tell her that hurts hah?wwell stop doing it to others it worked after awhile but you have to be consistant everytime

2006-12-15 05:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by pumpkinbugaboo 2 · 1 0

time out works for everything. as long as you do it correctly. When they are in time out, tell them why they are in time out and then ignore them. They will try to get your attention, but when you give in, they know that if they act up in time out, they wont have to stay in it. stay firm, be consistent. Good luck

2006-12-15 07:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by eric 2 · 0 0

Pinch her back, pinch her the same way she pinches you, she will figure it out.

2006-12-15 05:30:29 · answer #10 · answered by smartypants909 7 · 0 2

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