Me and this girl have been talking of starting a relationship. The problem is we live 6 hrs from each other and I'm in college and she's a senior in high school. We know we won't get to see each other as much as we would like and that long distance relationships are hard work. We've agreed to try it if we found a way that it may work. What are some different ways a long distance relationship can work out?
Thanks
2006-12-15 05:17:58 · 13 answers · asked by jkoster 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not very well.
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2006-12-15 05:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi....6 hours of driving is not a problem. Me and my girl is having a long distance relationship for about a year already and now we are even more close although now it will takes me 2 hour of flight + another 1 hour of driving if we wanna meet each other...
The most important thing in this long distance relationship is trusting each other, stay loyal and never forget to communicate thru phone or email or IM! That's how it's work for me
2006-12-15 05:24:10 · answer #2 · answered by rahim_al_kajai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both very young, my first piece of advice is that if it doesn't work out, it's ok. Let him go, if it's meant to be you will meet up again later in life. In long distance, it's the little things that mean big things. Write him handwritten letters, or get some chocolates or special things delivered to his door. Make him cards and send him your favourite photos and things to remember the good times you had together. Its gonna get hard ok, there will be days that you just NEED to see him...don't call him ok, on those days...you'll just get mad at him, don't complain, there's nothing he can do about it either. You need complete trust in a long distance relationship, you can't check up on him, and you can't be like his mum and need to know where he is at all times. If you really love each other, it'll be ok. Email me if you need advice later, if you're in a situation with him and you don't know how to handle it. Love him lots, and be there when he needs you...that's the best thing you can do. Us girls get really emotional and whiney sometimes when our man is away from us. You need to be strong. And when he tells you he misses you, believe it, even if you don't hear it in his voice. He's trying to be macho strong as well. Best wishes.
2016-05-24 21:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by Emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off make sure you both trust each other! and don't get over jelous!
mainly your going to have to communicate very well sence you can't have that contact passion when you want!.. TAke things slow don't try to rush into things! If you think this person is the one then don't look for another don't put yourself in a sisuation where you could be tempted you will set yourself up for drama if you do that!
make sure you BOTH make the effort to come and see each other! take turns i know it may seem non important but sooner or later someone will feel that they are driving all the time and making all effort to see each other!
set up plans to met! one weekend you drive one weekend she drives! NEVER do a double weekend NOT MATTER WHAT.. trust me! keep everything 50/50 ! if she or you get mad at that then i will not work!
Best of luck!
Long D relation ships can work!
just put in the effert and move those feelings aside!
2006-12-15 05:29:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were both in college, I would say that you might be able to find a way, but the difference between high school and college is huge. My advice is to become friends with the lady and put the relationship on ice. Date college women, or at least people that are 18+...
2006-12-15 05:23:51 · answer #5 · answered by cleanguy4cleanfun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alone sex
phone sex
oh wait you said she is in high-school,.. your long distance relationship is the best relationship a college guy can have with a high school girl,... it keeps the two of you from letting your hormons get out of control,...
keep the relationship online
school is half over this year and summer if very near
2006-12-15 05:22:44 · answer #6 · answered by hailey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not that far away. Just let it roll with the flow and if its meant to be then it'll succeed. She's about to get out of school and you're in college so you're both basically grown so you guys can do alot of planning to be closer if you love each other.
2006-12-15 05:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by Foreveryoung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships very rarely work out. Move on, find someone local. There are a million girls you could fall in love/lust with.
2006-12-15 05:26:48 · answer #8 · answered by bestbet77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends on the focal point of your relationship. if your just persuing her for her body, or looks, then pretty soon youll get bored of being without the body you desire. (and vice versa)
however, if you love this girl for who she is, distance will be nothing more than a reminder of how much you need to be with her. absence makes the heart grow fonder, and distance drives us closer to each other....
2006-12-15 05:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not that long. 6 hours is better than some people who are half a country apart. You should see what happens, and let it evolve, or devolve, on its own.
2006-12-15 05:19:24 · answer #10 · answered by Privatize 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no secret to it. It is completely up to the two of you as to whether it will work or not. If you are totally committed to each other and committed to making it work, it will work.
2006-12-15 05:20:18 · answer #11 · answered by tmills883 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋