ok i was with "patrick" and we had a disagreement so we broke up and his buddy "Travis" asked me out and i said yes but i Love Patirck and am not that into Travis what should i do?????
2006-12-15 05:02:09 · 20 answers · asked by Boo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really truly loved Patrick then you wouldn't have said yes to Travis in the first place. You'd be home crying your eyes out. What should you do? hmmm... Learn what love is and start loving yourself.
Another thing... Travis is not Patrick's "buddy". No friend would do that to another. Think about it.
2006-12-15 05:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, you really need to be honest with Travis. If you feel certain that you are in love with Patrick, then you need to tell Travis, especially since he is Patrick's friend!
Then you do need to call Patrick and ask him to meet you and talk to him about your disagreement and the way you feel about him.
You didn't make any reference as to what the disagreement was about, but am guessing it likely was over something silly.
I hope you didn't go out with Travis just to make Patrick jealous, especially since you care so much for Patrick. You just should not do that to someone you care so much about.
Honestly, honesty is always the best policy!
Good luck!
2006-12-15 13:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by Peekie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not into Travis then you shouldn't be with him. Go by what your heart tells you. If the disagreement was a little ordeal then why not try and get him back. Make him realize how much you love him. Don't waste your time on someone you don't have feelings for when then one you actually love could actually want back with you but your with his friend. Hope this helps some.
2006-12-15 13:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by blazin_cripz_2006_0wner.sheena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologize 2 patrick if u really do love him and he loves u back! tell travis that u love patrick still and u want things to try to work out 4 the 2 of u! but just apologize! its the best thing u can do! good luck! just call patrick and when he answers say i love u and im sorry!
2006-12-15 13:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by youngmama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patrick had his chance. Now is the time of Travis.
Give it to Travis better than you gave it to Patrick. And send Patrick a video.
2006-12-15 13:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you should dump TRAVIS and tell PATRICK that you STILL love him and that you made a big mustake with his buddy TRAVIS and you will do what ever to get him back
2006-12-15 13:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by coulson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump new guy ur only going out with him cuz of the break up and thats not right...if u still love 1st guy let him know how u feel and see if u can work it out but dump travis asap itll be bad for both of u in the end especially since u dont have feelings for him and he might have them for u
2006-12-15 13:09:46 · answer #7 · answered by JoDoLo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old saying, you've made your bed, now lie in it. All you can do is talk to each of them and let them know the truth. If "Patrick" takes you back, lessoned learned and don't make that mistake again, if he doesn't, nothing more to do, but to move on and again lessoned learned, don't make that mistake again. Don't date your ex's friends unless you are truly into them and it is really over with the ex.
2006-12-15 13:07:36 · answer #8 · answered by Elvira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a messy situation..
does patrick love u too.. if yes.. go to him..apologize if it was ur fault when u broke up and try to be back..
or if it was his fault...talk to him and ask him if he is willing to improve..if yes.. good..otherwise.. have fun with travis and forget about patrick
2006-12-15 13:04:31 · answer #9 · answered by Inquistive_man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get on jerry springer j/k if you broke up with him over just a disagreement how much did you really love him? and dont go dateing his friends your not gonna make him come back like that. all youll do is ruin his friendship with his buddy .
2006-12-15 13:06:50 · answer #10 · answered by diablos_2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋