well me and my boyfriend got back together and all together we been together for like 3 months and he asked to me if i was ready but he hasnt even said i love you yet but hes told me hes never felt this way about a girl be fore and i feel the same way should i go for it or make him wait more im confused he would be my first ive done alot but not that what should i do or say!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-15 05:00:42 · 7 answers · asked by **//TROUBL3S//** 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he doesnt love you.... THEN DONT DO IT! Its very simple.
2006-12-15 05:03:06 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok lets talk woman to woman-- First of all if you have to ask what should you do then you're not ready to have sex with him. Look like you've said he hasn't even told you that he loves you. You say that it's been 3 months; in three months you can't have sex with someone unless you're a slut! Love takes time. Don't give yourself up to him just because he said that he's never felt this way about a female before. Your virginity is sacred and you should treat it that way! Don't give into the pressure. If you're not ready then you're just not ready. Wait until you find that special someone that takes your breathe away, and if the guy you're talking about now is "the one" then like I said just give it time. Don't have sex just to do it or to make him happy; do it because you want too. I once read this quote: " First love is a little foolish and a lot of curiosity". Take time to see where things lead. It's to early to give into temptation.
2006-12-15 05:16:51 · answer #2 · answered by Ge.Ge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to betray all the guys here, . . . but if I was you, I would wait. He clearly doesn't love you, and he is just saying that you are special so he can get in your pants. You seem to have some reservations about doing this, and based on that fact alone I suggest NOT doing it. Save yourself for when YOU are ready. Its better if you make your first time special with someone that you share a deep loving bond with. If this guy truly loves you, he won't preasure you too much. Good luck!~
2006-12-15 05:06:13 · answer #3 · answered by captainkirkwood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask then you are not ready - there is no reason to jump in to anything. Better to wait and be certain that this is not just a booty call
2006-12-15 05:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait, its better once you really know that person. trust me
2006-12-15 05:03:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it for love or for money... do it because it feels right.
2006-12-15 05:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time only.
2006-12-15 05:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋