My fiance and I are getting marriaged really soon but we haven't done the "deed" yet and that's because of his size. What can we do to make it easier to fit into me?
2006-12-15 04:44:47 · 15 answers · asked by Say Strore 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He just has to get you ready, and if that doesn't work use a good lube.
2006-12-15 04:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by Dan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consult your gynecologist. He will probably tell you to strech your vagina with some sort of dildo that can be augmented in its dimensions. Naturally, a lot of lubricating is necessarry. Also, wanting to have a penetration, forgetting fear about being invaded concentrating in giving yourself to him for love, are all things which will help you to accomplish your desire. Just remember that nature designed those places to allow the exit of the head of an infant at birth and to give place to a penis is way smaller in dimensions.
I would also counsel you to assist to your doctor accompanied by him, so he will be cnscient about the possible mechanical problems you both will be facing. Ask whatever gives you fear or curiosity. The physicians should know how to satisfy your needs.
Another alternative is to go to a sexologist, I know they are more knowlegeable about such problems and things.
2006-12-15 04:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by Rolf M 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have no fear...this will work. Keep in mind that your "area" is a VERY elastic organ..Its made for babies to travel through. It will accommodate what puts the babies in there.
After you relax and lube....it helps.....your body will naturally take over. Just don't tense up.
2006-12-15 04:51:22 · answer #3 · answered by hiller186 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i did some research and the only thing the doctors said to do is to make sure u have enough lubrication!
2006-12-15 04:48:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Start with fingers first. Once you're up to 3, then your ready to go. And you'll be very turned on which should help. Good luck!
2006-12-15 04:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, wait until the marriage is complete. Then, use lubrication. But what you'll find is, your hole will expand more than you think it will. Believe me, my wife and I have the same "situation"
2006-12-15 04:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just get lubed up and let him jam it in. you'll open up like the lincoln tunnel guaranteed.
but it's going to hurt a bit at first.
2006-12-15 04:48:36 · answer #7 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Make sure he's hitting the right hole.
2006-12-15 04:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
: o
Oh wow...and you're getting married??? Lube???
How about just forgetting the whole thing.
2006-12-15 04:47:07 · answer #9 · answered by incognitas8 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound like you've ever even had sex...you would know
babies DO come outta there
2006-12-15 04:47:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋