2006-12-15 04:44:33 · 9 answers · asked by HI 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I am answering this from personal experience. Personally I do not like to be in control of anything or anyone, I am way too laid back. I think that alot of people thinks that they need to control eveyone and every situation because they feel a lack of control in their own lives. Another thing could be that they feel a need to help, and feel that the best way they can help is by controlling the situation, and some people are just plain bossy. To really understand why that particular person is a control freak, you would have to take a look at their personal life style and their other charachter traits.
2006-12-15 04:53:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People like that scared of feeling out of control. So the only way they ever really to feel in control is to be in control. It is like an illness. They feel the need to control EVERYTHING or they feel like they are in control of nothing
2006-12-15 05:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because they are very insecure and fearful. Trying to control things gives them a false sense of security. It's sad- they get no joy out of living because their fears keep them from enjoying life.
2006-12-15 07:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are usually filled with fear, because past events have been so OUT of their control, and done this to them.
If someone is trying to control you or your actions, don't buy into their illness, and don't victimize yourself.
2006-12-15 05:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by papyrusbtl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lack of self or inner control. Fear to burst out. Fear to look inside. Looking outside to avoid dealing with inner problems.
2006-12-15 06:28:51 · answer #5 · answered by morganna_f 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they are control freaks.
2006-12-15 04:46:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are insecure. dont, have no confidance. full of fear and think people will leave them.
2006-12-15 04:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by denise g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they may be narcissists.
2006-12-15 05:06:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This might be helpful
http://sensitive-psychoworld.blogspot.com/
2006-12-15 06:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by LIz 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋