I have been seeing a guy in his 30's. We went out for a few weeks and got on well but he seemed to back off. After a while I finished with him as I didn't think he was as interested in me as I was in him. I then e-mailed him and asked him if I had come on too strong or if he just saw me as a friend. He said no. I said I was looking for someone special. He sent one back saying that he felt the same. I don't get it. He hasn't rung for a week yet I get these messages. He said he doesn't have any ex or rebound issues. Should I hang around and wait for him. I thought when I finished it it was finished and now I am confused. He cancelled our last date saying he would really like to see me in the new year. I thought that was bloody cheeky and said that was fine if he wanted things that way. Then the e-mails started. It is driving me nuts. I feel like telling him to get lost and stop playing with my emotions, but I like him too much.... Any advice out there.
2006-12-15 04:42:05 · 11 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think this guy is being completely honest with you. I think he certainly likes the attention you are giving him, perhaps you are boosting his ego a little. If you turned the whole thing round and you really liked someone and wanted it to go further, would you act like this. I don't think you would. I know you say you like him, but from what you say, it don't seem that there is too much to like. He is playing with your emotions. You don't deserve to be treated like this. Go party and find a real man, one who will appreciate you. Ditch this loser for good.
2006-12-15 05:11:22 · answer #1 · answered by JillPinky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a guy friend that would go out with a girl and see her for a while, then meet someone else who interested him a bit. He would then kind of put girl #1 on hold while he messed around with girl #2 until he decided which one he liked better. In his case sometimes he had 3 or 4 girls going at the same time until he decided what he wanted to do. I wonder if that is what is going on with this guy?? He sounds a bit arrogant if you ask me. I would say to keep looking for that special guy and if this guy turns up again and you happen to be available then see what happens, but I would certainly not sit and wait for him!!
2006-12-15 04:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by Leslie H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's keeping you on the back burner. Waiting for s/thing better to come along(no offence), or wanting to see if another relationship developes, before comminting to you.
You are completely right. What is "in the new year" all about? If he was really as serious as he said, he would be kissing you at midnight after the countdown.
Ditch the guy, and start enjoying the party season.
Merry christmas hon xxx
2006-12-15 04:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by siany warny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is an extraordinary ingredient i typically ask myself if love is a reliable ingredient y does it harm so undesirable. nonetheless i dont understand the respond to that, yet when he says that issues have replaced between u then u ought to look back on the circumstances u shared and attempt to be sure at the same time as did issues replace. Alot of circumstances human beings get there emotions harm because they loved that human being more desirable than that human being loved them and that is conceivable and on the right its also very painful. If u are youthful meaning below 30 years previous then a intense courting is fairly out of the question for some human beings. yet another excuse y he broke it off will be because he's wondered. U ought to attempt 2 examine with him back u understand what they say (human beings cut up 2 make up) reliable success SWEETIE desire my suggestion helps
2016-10-18 08:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer the e-mails. See what happens in the New Year if he contacts you then. In the meantime go out with your mates and enjoy yourself, life is too short. It sounds like he's playing games at the moment and you're falling for it. See how you feel in January and if the feelings are still strong suggest you meet. If he puts you off, move on.
2006-12-15 05:10:02 · answer #5 · answered by Steve D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him an ultimatum...a time limit. Tell him you are giving him a week to decide what he wants, if he wants you he needs to make some sort of commitent to a relationship, if he's still not sure....tell him you will be deleting all numbers and his Email addy. Then hun if you have to .move on....he wont be worth the heartache.
Good luck
Merry Christmas
2006-12-15 04:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by crazeeladee no more 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is a complete asshole. Forget him and move on... Sounds like a he's a bloody player. I don't blame you for getting angry... I would be freaking pissed if a guy did the same.
2006-12-15 04:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by mitchchan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till Xmass, some men enjoy doing that,
2006-12-15 05:09:47 · answer #8 · answered by vfm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this guys has issues to deal with and cant tell you. You've told him how you feel. Get on with your life,if he's meant to be then he will come for you. If he dont then it wasnt meant to be..
2006-12-15 04:53:05 · answer #9 · answered by saika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch him im here ready and waiting
2006-12-15 04:51:36 · answer #10 · answered by rabbit18 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋