I recently dumped my bf b/c he was cheating on me. I think about him everyday. I want to meet someone new but how? I can't go out anywhere b/c I'm on probation. So no parties or anything. How can I move on when the world is against me? I don't think I'm ugly, I have natural red hair and im 5'8 and not real chubby. I really need some more friends too. Take a look~www.pradagal.hi5.com~ Am I realy that bad looking? I'm not even wearing make-up in the pic! But anyway I need peeps to answer me I don't know what to do!
2006-12-15 04:37:23 · 11 answers · asked by that redheaded chick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, the world is not against you! Sometimes we think the world is against us just because things don't happen they way we want they to happen. You are right about finding new friends; one of the best ways is to do something you like and then see who enjoys doing the same thing. You do not need to go to parties or bars to meet cool people. Some people meet in chuches, others in libraries, and others at the beach ;) In case there are no beaches where you live, they may meet at a local club ;)
Main point is: hang in there, look for good friends in good places, and eventually you'll have both: good friends and hopefully, new hobbies :)
2006-12-15 04:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by o302 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break from boys and use this probation time to focus on yourself. When it's the right time you can go back out into the dating world looking for exactly what you need in a man. Read a book or two and stimulate your brain.
2006-12-15 04:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by Bebe Bluff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so you dumped him for a reason so dont worry about him.he shouldnt matter but i guess thats not the question,ok so wait until after your probation is over go out and have a good time. you dont need a guy in your life all the time. its not an essential part of your life to have a boyfriend. just wait and things will fall how there supposed too.
2006-12-15 04:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by xsecretxowishesx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to believe in yourself.Always believe that you are born to conquer and not to give up.There is a saying that 'there is time for everything'. Maybe this is the time you can relax and think what really you want to do with your life n how to make your life better and I promise you, the right guy will be knocking at your door.
I wish you the best of luck.
2006-12-15 04:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by cajadman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of trying to meet someone new try to focus on making you happy remember if you're not happy then you'll be no good in a relatioship. You'll only be walking aroung with a lot of baggage, let there be some alone time trut me Mr. Right will com along. If you focus on you there's less time to focus on him.:-)
Goof luck
2006-12-15 04:41:33 · answer #5 · answered by seandel g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try online dating. By the time your probation is up, you will have found someone. ALso I wouldn't mentioned you are on probation. It would scare the good ones away.
2006-12-15 04:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by wknightf3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after gettiing separated from ur partner and the moving on is never easy dear....we are not electric switches...
i have been there...
and it took me a while to come out of that..
suggestion would be to get ur self busy with friends..work..movies...dance/cooking or what ever u like...
and if u need a friend.. iam here.. u can always send me an IM..
2006-12-15 04:42:06 · answer #7 · answered by Inquistive_man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay u described urself r looking for advise or a date? cause maybe the reason he cheated is because u r too flirtatious or u r too concerned about what he thinks
2006-12-15 04:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi am going through the same thing as u but my situation is that i am pregnant i do not know what to do
2006-12-15 04:40:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
read some good fantasy books
2006-12-15 04:39:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋