I am completely heartbroken. I am only 15 and it seems like this is the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with. I love him to death but it's over. Email me and I'll tell you the whole story. but from that info, what should I do?
Samantha
2006-12-15 04:33:41 · 17 answers · asked by tjsaloser_06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your only 15, you should enjoy your life and stop trying to be married with kids before your 20...it's a waste of life
2006-12-15 04:36:24 · answer #1 · answered by violet1656 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Take it one day at a time.
You are only 15 years old. Do not stay hung up on this guy.
You deserve someone who loves only you. At your age, both of you need to see what's out there. You need a little life experience.
Take it one day at a time. Reconnect with your friends.
Feel happy and just think of this:
Everything in life happens for a reason. If the relationship is over now, it's because it was meant to be over, for something even better awaits you.
Good Luck
2006-12-15 04:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by MomOf2Girls 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you're only 15 and you've been with this guy for 4 years? Sweetie you were 11. I know it hurts A LOT and you think you were in love with him. But first of all, the teen years is when people change the most. maybe you love who he was. Secondly you've got your WHOLE life ahead of you!! You'll find someone else and feel that love feeling again. If you were really meant to be, it'll happen. But for now, move on
2006-12-15 04:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by sunkist3122 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you started this relationship when you were just 11 so I'm assuming he is around your age. If you have only been together for the past 4 years he will now be reaching the age where he is realizing that there are more girls out there and as hard as it may be to take you might have to let him go. If you try to get him back and do all the usual things like begging and crying and stuff you will only push him away. The only real chance you have of getting him back is to let him get this out of his system and get yourself together by working to improve yourself in lots of ways like school grades and hobbies this will keep you occupied and also it will show him that you can be independent. If you do this and most importantly TAKE YOUR TIME AND BE PATIENT he might come to realize that he has made a big mistake and you might get him back.
Good luck
2006-12-15 04:43:33 · answer #4 · answered by Mark C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In 5 years your going to laugh at the fact that you said you wanted to spend the rest of your life with him. Trust me! Been there done that. You will change so much when you get older, you'll meet alot of people. There are plenty of fish in the sea. And especially if he started seeing another chick, what is that telling you? He obviously doesn't feel the same about you. actions speak louder than words.
2006-12-15 04:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by Felicia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're only 15, give it time... and you'll be okay. I know you're heartbroken and that's very understandable. But, a guy that's going to ruin things just like that after 4 YEARS definitely isn't worth it anyway.
So, do your best to forget about him and move on. You've got your whole life ahead of you to find the "right guy".
2006-12-15 04:38:27 · answer #6 · answered by MARRIED Mommy♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off... you are only 15. Of course guys are going to see other gals if he started seeing you 4 yrs ago. Don't start getting serious until you are much older. Date and have fun and get to know people and work on your communication skills with the opposite sex. Then it will happen for you when you find "the one."
2006-12-15 04:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by Big Mak 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your first broken heart, and at such a young age. You will always remember the guy who stole your heart and ran away. Life changes so quickly, things never stay the same, never. You will find another special person, but for now enjoy your free time and figure out what you want in your future, set goals and aim for them.
2006-12-15 04:47:22 · answer #8 · answered by Gabriele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 15 once too, and I got over it, you'll get over it too.
Besides at that age, you had to be dating since you were 11, right? Who has a boyfriend at 11?
Think about your life--you don't have anything else laying around since you were 11 right? so what do you need him for. Grow up and move on.
2006-12-15 04:37:59 · answer #9 · answered by rchl782 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm ok you are ONLY 15!!! You do not have a clue yet what you want for the rest of your life!! Go out have fun and be 15!!
2006-12-15 04:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by Mystic 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋