What level of sexual intimacy is appropriate on a first date? How about on a second date? When is intimacy appropriate and what are determining factors?
2006-12-15 04:22:30 · 13 answers · asked by anabelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What level of sexual intimacy is appropriate on a first date? How about on a second date? When is intimacy appropriate and what are determining factors?
Many people seem to think that I am asking for advice on this, but I would just like more points of view for a school paper I am working on. So themore details and reasons the better.
2006-12-17 15:05:20 · update #1
Myself I am not turned on or attracted to a female who I am able to have sex with on a first or second date. I like to allow the sexual tension to build up while I get to know a lady and then when the time is right we both are on the same path. But to be get down and nasty too early in a relationship leaves no room for either imagination or fantasy to overwhelm us. Sex too early in a relationship often leads to a lot of trouble, a lot of questions ie: if she's that easy with me how about all the other fella's she's been with, and her becoming just a friend to call in time of need and not for a long term relationship.
2006-12-15 04:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A hug, kissing. That should be all for a first date. The second I'd say the same.
Ps. It really does depend on the age and type of boy/girl that you are daring.
2006-12-15 04:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on your age.
I am in my 40's and many many men feel like if there is not sex by the 3rd date, it is not going to happen, not worth it, however that is not ALWAYS the case, but generally that is the rule of thumb...
BUT that would not be appropriate for a person who has not been married.. not for someone in college or high school.. maybe 30+
2006-12-15 04:27:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be in a rush for any type of intimacy on a first date unless you dont really care about that person and dont plan on being in a long term relationship.as long as you dont feel pressured to do anything have sex on whatever date.
2006-12-15 04:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 00:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first date go out to eat hold handssecond time get to talking to him about his past maybe get one kiss in before the night is over.
once you get to know him well enough take it to the next level which is getting in the bed but first make sure he does not have a STD/HIV and if he doesn't tell you he does have a STD and you get it he can go to jail for giving you something that can kill you.
2006-12-15 04:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by lil5bow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first date: holding hands and maybe a kiss, not those crazy slobbery kiss--->a sweet kiss ^^
2nd date: I would do the same as first date.
3rd date: I would hug, kiss, he would probably hang out at my place more and call each other more often
Anything and everything is after 5 months ^^
2006-12-15 04:34:34 · answer #7 · answered by deliah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on a lot of things --- age and experience mostly --- what they are both looking for --- could range from a handshake to wonderful satisfying sex ---- dont make rules for dates --- just go and enjoy the company if you can --- if you dont well dont see them again
2006-12-15 04:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holding hands, arm around your shoulder, and a few kisses.
2006-12-15 04:48:00 · answer #9 · answered by autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as she wants to go.
2006-12-15 04:27:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋