I had a disscusion with a friend and he said there is no such thing as true love there is only convience. i dissagreed with him but i was wondering if there is such thing as true love because i don't know.
2006-12-15 04:10:44 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When ya got it - you know it. So your friend just hasn't had it yet. I found it - and it's like nothing I've EVER felt before. You can't describe it other than, "finding your other half" - your soulmate, the person you were meant to be with, made for each other. It doesn't mean that person is perfect...just perfect for you. It's unmistakable though - you'll never have to wonder if you've found it once you have!
2006-12-15 04:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES there is such a thing as real love if yo are in love then it is real you are real your feelings are real the other person is real so it has to b real love is the best feeling that any one can ever have i am a VERY strong beliver in love although i have not found my one and only someone it is there and i will find it so just don't give up
goodluck<3
2006-12-15 04:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by lizzie_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The word "love" is a relative term and how it is defined depends on the person and what they bring to the table -- their past experiences, their relationship values, their needs, wants and desires. I disagree that "there is only convenience," which sounds a bit cynnical and lazy. I believe in "true" love because I believe people are capable of genuine feelings for each other and given the right chemistry, certain people when they come together create a very dynamic reaction that can be sustained with hard work, patience and compromise for years to come. Prior to our attitude of confusing "sex" with "love," people stayed married and in love 30, 40, 50 years. But now that "sex" is so connected with the emotional feeling of "love," intercourse plays a more prodominant role. But to reach true love you have to relate soul to soul which requires a lot more than a condom.
2006-12-15 04:16:25 · answer #3 · answered by rejavanation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course there is. im not big on fairy tales or everything being perfect all the time, but i do believe that two people can be so innexplicably perfect for each other and see the beauty in each others flaws and strengths, and that can make them fall in love. alot of people dont believe in it however, and will marry someone or stay with them just for sex, money, or comfort. i have seen true love, however, and while that over the hill infatuation (which some call love) may not always last, knowing somebody completely and loving them for WHO THEY ARE can make a marriage or a union, or even a friendship, last forever.
2006-12-15 04:17:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is for sure. It just sounds like your friend hasn't found it yet. I had heard a zillion times in my life that I would know it when I found it, and I didn't buy it. As cheesy as it sounds though, I found it and everyone was right, I knew it as soon as I did find it. Now, when I think back on some of the relationships I had in the past, I was trying to make relationships into true love, but when you find it, it just is, everything clicks and falls into place.
2006-12-15 04:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by Leslie H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought so at one point, but then when things take a turn for the worse it's like all you thought was there wasn't real. And all the feelings you felt weren't real. Sometimes you think there is love because you thought you finally found it. When you get hurt it's hard to believe there really is love. Because when you did "love" that person and they did something and it ends, the feeling really was never there to begin with. Okay did I confuse you? lol
2006-12-15 04:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by that redheaded chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes true love exists. Of course!!! True love exists because you can see it every time that perfect couple looks at each other. You can see an instant connection between two complete strangers as they see each other for the first time. They know that they were meant to be. Without true love, life would have no meaning.
2016-05-24 20:58:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe there is, "true" love can mean anything; it is opinionated.
I believe that "love" is just a selfish motivation to get what you want/need from another... "care" is nothing but the desire to have someone or something still there with you or around so that you can receive from them... and to receive you muct give... love is entirely selfish
It is also just a chemical high in the brain... dopamine
2006-12-15 04:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love, as in there being one person and only one person out there who's right for you? Not a chance! I think there are many people with whom you are compatible with, and that you may even fall in love with if the timing is right.
2006-12-15 04:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by Lady K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe in true love, not so sure that there is only one true love in a lifetime though. i have truly been in love a few times... still in love to some extent with each of those people. as far as 'seek and you will find it' - i've found that when you are seeking you don't exactly find what you were looking for.
2006-12-15 04:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by biz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋