I had a very serial experience with a girl I met on a train. The feelings I had where beyond words. I gazed into her eyes and she looked back, I smiled at her and she smiled back. I also noticed her playing with her hair, you know the way girls do when they like someone. And she had this weird glow about her like a bright light she really took my breath away. And when we were waiting to get off the train, she avoided eye contact with me, but hung back a little as if she wanted me to talk to her. And as she was walking away from the platform, she took one last look back at me. Are these all signs that a girl likes someone? The only reason I did not talk to her was, one I was nervous and she was with a group of other girls. I mean what is it with girls hanging out in packs. Don’t they realise how much harder it is to talk to a girl if she is with a lot off girls at the time? So what can I do now, I see her every time I go to work. And I really want to talk to her, but I don’t want to embarrass myself in front off her friends please help!
2006-12-15 04:06:28 · 19 answers · asked by T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hope so much that you see her again, it sounds to me like you have found the 'one' for you. this happened when I met my husband of 6 years! I saw him 'glow' I later found out that this was his aura! How cool is that? I knew nothing about him, but I felt a connection to him, deep inside me, I knew that I would be with him.
If you see her again, you should totally go up to her and talk to her, give it go. you have nothing to loose - apart perhaps from the woman you are meant to be with!
2006-12-15 04:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
A guy is bound to sweep a pretty girl off her feet, I am sure she likes you and that the timing is off, if you see hwer everyday and you get a chance when she is not with her friend go up and talk to her, she may like it that you were kind enough to take notice in her, it is hard to talk to a girl when others are around makes the situation more akward then it is. But once she is able to talk to you without her friends around it will be much easier for you and her to have a chat and find out if there is something to it. But you will only find that out if you talk to her and you know she can't read you mind otherwise there would be no need in saying anything, It seems she is into you but maybe when you can invite her to dinner and chat with her then you might find it easier to know what she is like. If you are any guy you will take her for who she is and that will make her appreciate you more once she gets to know you.
2006-12-15 12:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I thought it sounded like you had met an angel until I read the last sentence...
It does sound pretty special, life is short; do something. Even just 'hello', be casual, smile. No need to expose yourself any more than you feel comfortable... If saying hello is making you uncomfortable, now don't be silly! It's little things like that which can open doors. Just be yourself, don't make a mountain out of a molehill.
GOOD LUCK! Go for it!
2006-12-15 12:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by Nini 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had that feeling before, so the answer is Yes you can fall in-love with a person you've just met. My advice is since you say you see her almost everyday, gather your courage and approach her. You know what ? If she feels the same you are hurting her cos it hurts when a girl likes a guy and the guy doesnt approach. Go ahead!! Good luck
2006-12-15 12:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by vfm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. You cannot fall in love with someone with whom you've never exchanged a word. You can be in lust with their looks or interested in finding out more about them, but you are not in love with a total stranger. Don't make more of it than it is. Especially because by making more of it than it is, you make yourself so nervous that you will screw up any attempt to talk to her. So calm down! LOL
2. Girls hang out in packs because it feels safer. A wise girl will know that every so often, she needs to pull away from the pack so that a guy can more easily approach her. However, if she's inexperienced, she may not know that. In that case, you may need to either kiss the idea of her goodbye or grow some courage to approach her even if she's with her friends.
2006-12-15 12:14:32 · answer #5 · answered by Karen L 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Try catching her just as she gets off and slipping a piece of paper with your number on it to her, this way you don't get overly embarrassed and you find out if she likes you back for sure, then you can do the whole text flirting thing and break the ice before you go out on your first date. Good luck with this mate were rooting for ya!
2006-12-15 12:12:45 · answer #6 · answered by Begbie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't fall in love with someone you don't know. Never go by feelings, else you'll always get into trouble. But it does seem there's some chemistry. So get to know her. Be a man - go up to her. Women want to be persued. You'll win her apporval straightaway. Ask her out etc. If she says no, you've lost nothing!
2006-12-15 12:19:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just say hi and start chatting. She will soon let you know if she is interested. If you are that keen embarrassment is a risk worth taking. If you don't take the chance you will regret it. Good luck.
2006-12-15 12:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go and speak to her. Opportunities come around very rarely in life. Take your chances as the come. Regret is a horrible thing.
2006-12-15 12:12:22 · answer #9 · answered by beanie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
absolute yes Mr. you can fall in love with some one just 15minutes of your first meet. some gals they are so sex and attractive to men's eyes. and even you can propose mar rage the next day to afraid to lose her. but your words have to be very precise, express you feeling and let her know why you think she is a queen.
2006-12-15 12:16:26 · answer #10 · answered by Forcus M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋