Me and my fiancee have been together for 1 year and a 1/2. And We just don't feel the same about each other anymore. We are constantly fighting and all. And the company i work for almost all of our customers are men. At work there is this one specific customer that everytime he comes in he wants to take me on a date!! The only thing is is that he is 20 years older than me but he looks like he is only 10 years. What should i do??? Thanks for your help!!
2006-12-15 04:04:43 · 22 answers · asked by Christina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO NOT listen to any of these idiots who tell you to end it with your fiance, thats what everyone does. Don't be a follower.Think long and hard about this one , the grass is never greener on the other side. If this guy is asking you out knowing that you are attatched, then he does not respect you. relationship counceling is 89% effective. Try it, if it does not work take some time out from dating and start over slow.When it comes to relationships most people are lazy be 1 of the good ones not 1 of the drones.
2006-12-15 04:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by frogenstien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, dump the current. Yes, i know, lots of time invested. Oh well, that's relationships. Don't find yourself together with him and it getting worse 10 years down the road. As for dating a customer...its never good to mix the business and relationships...that will cause some issues. But definitely cut the lease and get back out there...
2006-12-15 04:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by behr28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short not to go for what you want. And to stay with your fiance when your constantly fighting -hmmm time for a break I'de say, that's what an engagement is for - to see if your ready for the next life long commitment. If it was me, and i could do things over again, I would take a break and try this older fella out, if your attracted to him, your wasting time by not going for the things that make you happy.
2006-12-15 04:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by inmyprime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having doubts about getting married to him, then really dont geet married! Marriage is for life. Fighting all the time, is not good, try sitting down to figure out why u fighting. As for the customer, its always nice when another guy shows interest in you, especially if you feeling down in the relationship you are in. But again, if you having doubts....then really think about if you want to get married!
2006-12-15 04:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by BadGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not feel you and your man are going to work. Let him know. Trust me. Marriage is somthing that you want to enjoy. If you really dont feel happy then tell him you need to explore. And as for the customer, age is just a number. Who knows maybe he would be your Knight in shinning armor!! Youll never know if you dont give it a shot!!
2006-12-15 04:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by jm_radi2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off with your fiancee if you don't feel anything is going anywhere with him anymore. If your feeling this guy who is 20 years older than you........... go for it, although that is a lot older not sure if its a good idea to go out with someone who is that much older than you.
2006-12-15 04:07:50 · answer #6 · answered by kms010494 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your fiance don't feel the same anymore, you should end it. I don't know about the other guy - 20 years is a big age difference, especially if you are young.
2006-12-15 04:11:45 · answer #7 · answered by justcurious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to leave your fiance and someone 20 older cause married is forever. it's not easy married with 20 older, maybe right now you happy but 20 years later, you don't
2006-12-15 04:09:25 · answer #8 · answered by Diar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not date the customers it is a nono.
If you are growing apart either work on the relationship or end it and begin a new one that your feeling just continue to grow
2006-12-15 04:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by using the word "fiancee" means u have committed to marriage.
Either u want to get married or u don't. If u don't -- dump him and move on...if u do--do not cheat
2006-12-15 04:07:32 · answer #10 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋