how long should you wait to have sex? me any my boyfriend have ben dating for 8 months and we have not done "it"..... i think i want to but im afraid something bad will happen.... if my dad ever found out he would kill me!!!! what should i do?
2006-12-15 04:02:05 · 28 answers · asked by whitwhit ♥ u!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you? Are you ready for it? It's an important thing. You'll know when the time is right. Just make sure you are ready, don't do it when you only "think" you are ready.
And when you do decide to, and this is very important...MAKE YOUR CHOICE BEFORE YOU HAVE TO. Meaning = If you aren't ready to be a parent then MAKE SURE you don't become one. Use protection AND be careful (like a back-up).
Good luck to you.
2006-12-15 04:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by DivaDynamite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't a time limit. Be aware that once you do the deed, the relationship becomes more about sex than love, especially since it sounds like you are still about high school age? Sex can be the best thing in the world in the right setting with the right person. It can create a nightmare the other way around. If you think there is a chance you might regret it, you shouldn't do it. Getting killed by dad is a pretty good incentive to avoid it.
2006-12-15 04:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by PDH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were in situation like and knowing how my dad is I would wait until I got married then I would not have to feel guity. Sometimes saving the best things for last are worth waiting for. You and your significant other have not been in a relationship long, get to know your boyfriend a little better and let him know what you expect and that you feel that you and him should wait because you don't want any trouble to start, tell you love and him and hope that he understands. The key is communication.
2006-12-15 04:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I need more info, like how old are you? If you are under 15, DEF WAIT! Also just some info you may not know... Most women dont have orgasms till they are in their 30's, so dont expect this to feel good. And... Sex really changes a relationship, so If you dont want things to change, Dont have sex yet. Good luck
2006-12-15 04:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If, you are That worried about your Dad then you REALLY aren't ready....please wait a little bit longer, I would say wait till marriage or until you are in your 20's. I was 20 and I wasted on a guy that was totally not worth it...Men change after then get "IT".....buy yourself personal devices and learn about yourself....it nature, it safer and doesn't leave you heart broken. Good luck and God bless.
2006-12-15 04:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by Lovely B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
by mentioning your "dad" I will assume you are a minor child under the age of 18 and still living at home.
If this is the case, you should refrain from having sex until you are old enough to be considered and adult and living on your own. Therefore, it will not be necessary for you to worry about what your "dad" thinks.
2006-12-15 04:05:43 · answer #6 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were my daughter I would want you to wait until marriage! Sex is taken so lightly these days - everyone 'doing it' with whoever they want. Young people don't realize that by having sex, you are forever connecting yourself to your lover - by that I mean, emotions change, physical needs change, and most importantly any STDs present are shared. You have your entire life ahead of you to enjoy the pleasures of sex! Just wait until you have found "the one" with whom you plan to share the rest of your life. God bless!
Merry Christmas!
2006-12-15 04:07:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say follow ur instincts. if you really don't want to then just wait until ur ready - i promise he will definitely respect u more for not giving up ur goodies so fast. It's so many factors involved with sex; possibility of getting pregnant, STD's, the guilt, AND THEN IT MAY NOT EVEN BE ALL THAT!!. I strongly suggest that you wait until its what you want to do.
2006-12-15 04:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by misscheri_p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-15 04:05:20 · answer #9 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to wait until you are completely a million percent positive. when you decide you completely are, go to a family planning clinic and get birth control, then go to the store and buy your condoms and a prego test because you'll want that. also wait 1 month after starting the pill to do it.
good luck and best wishes
2006-12-15 04:06:00 · answer #10 · answered by Denise6433 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋