do you think they cheat on you
2006-12-15 04:01:04 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jealously is an ulgy trait
2006-12-15 04:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by stinkypinky 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel this must be judged on a one per one basis. You can't just lump all men in one group. Some are very caring, kind, and sincere. They don't think as women do. Never was there a more true statement then, "Men are from Mars, And Women are from Venus." Thank god. Where would be the fun and adventure if everyone were the same. I have dated a few duds, and a few really cool men.
I am very lucky with the man I am with now. I hope he will want me for very long time. Even if we don't make it; I feel we will remain good friends. He is a really nice and open person. I count myself very fortunate to have met him. We dicuss many things.( Both sexual and non.) We both try to compromise and sometimes we disagree. I think one of the coolest things about my guy is he listens. He is very decisive. But he does not raise his voice to me. Sometimes he does not answer right away. He will think it over. It is so wonderful to have a caring man. Far from perfect ;but neither am I.
I don't know if the guy I am with will cheat on me. He knows my feelings on the subject though. It would not be good. What is the point of being with someone and not be faithful. But he shall have my trust until proved otherwise. How can I go into a relationship without the basis of trust? I can't throw my past baggage on my current guy. Our past may have brought us to the present; but it should not dictate our future.
2006-12-15 12:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by vennie s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex, I never trusted - he was a player before me and had a very extensive "history" (a lot of experience, so to say). Though he swears to this day he never cheated on me, and that I taught him about monogamy (he doesn't cheat on any of his girlfriends since me, so says he), I just always had trouble trusting him (it ended up being what killed our relationship of four years).
My current boyfriend I trust. Sure, it could happen, but I certainly don't expect it to. He's against the entire idea of cheating, and he really just isn't the type.
Would I ever trust anyone - male or female - 100%? No. It's the nature of the beast; I know too many people that have cheated (almost everyone I know has, at some point in some relationship). I just don't think we're truly created to be a fully monogamous species. It's the exception, not the rule, to have a 100% faithful relationship on both sides, I believe.
2006-12-15 12:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by skatoolaki 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When i was at 15 I got into a relationship that lasted 5 years. But yes I thought he cheated on me. I found out a few times about him being with different girls but STUPID me stayed with him. Don't go through it it's not worth it.
2006-12-15 12:06:13 · answer #4 · answered by Weiners and Beans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think my boyfriend is a wonderful man.
No, I do not go around worrying about him cheating on me. What kind of relationship would that be?
2006-12-15 12:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by Barbi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they have a history of doing so then yes, but if not then no I don't think so...the guy I am going out w/ right now has ready made it clear that he is to much of a man to be so low as to cheat on me.
2006-12-15 12:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll, uummm, Yeahh sometimes I believe my boyfriend may be cheating on me or may be planning to cheat on me... Because most of his friends are girls... which I dont really mind as long as nothing more than friends... becuase he is mine and i dont like to share.. but you have to be able to trust your boyfriend... a relationship has to have trust to be a relationship.
2006-12-15 12:04:13 · answer #7 · answered by lil_miss_lynn33 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depending on the level of trust between you and him. Sometimes it takes a while for you to trust him, it will all depend on how much he shows you that he wont betray you.
Also it depends if your friends and family members are trusthworthy. In my case my mom betrayed my trust a lot so it was difficult for me to trust my boyfriend. But with time now I know he is devoted to me.
2006-12-15 12:07:44 · answer #8 · answered by Alejandra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married, and I sometimes wonder. You just have to look for signs, and if they are acting much different then what they normally would. Honestly honey, its sometimes really hard to tell. Snoop around and see what you find out, just realize you may not like the information that you find!
2006-12-15 12:03:37 · answer #9 · answered by jm_radi2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls usually like their boyfriends..
Usually when a girl thinks he is cheating, she is right...
Not always...
2006-12-15 12:08:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most men will cheat if the opportunity presents itself.
It's biological so, don't take it personally.
2006-12-15 12:03:58 · answer #11 · answered by dopeadevil23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋