look i really like this guy but i think all he wants is a piece of *** is it ok (for both of us) to just be in it for the sex?
2006-12-15 03:44:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really only want sex, than it is okay.
The problem is people say they only want sex but deep down they want more.
Be true to yourself. Because if he only wants sex than it will never be more than that, ever.
2006-12-15 03:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really like this guy and you want a relationship with him then just being in it for the sex is not the way to go.There's more to a relationship than just sex. If you don't want a relationship and just sex then yeah maybe it's ok but be careful and use protection.
2006-12-15 12:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you already really like him do you think it's a good idea to let him use you? You will probably end up feeling pretty depressed by the time it ends. You can't expect him to develop feelings for you just because you are putting out. Work on the feelings first and then put out.
2006-12-15 11:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok if you are ok. But if you like him, sounds like you are going to keep hoping he will change and that isn't right. you just going to end up hurt. If you like him and want more than sex, you shouldn't settle for just sex. Wait untill you find the whole package.
2006-12-15 11:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by dahfna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hats all you want too then its fine as long as your carefull[safe sex is best]however if your hoping for more the worse thing you can do is to sleep with him he'll never respect you
2006-12-15 11:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by keevy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being it in for just that will become emotionally and mentally exhausting. you should want more for yourself than that.
its all about how you can deal with your own emotions. can you deal with someone using your body for their benefit?
2006-12-15 11:48:44 · answer #6 · answered by TracyBee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh its fine as long as your both comfortable with it,.... if you want more... and want love to go with it then tell him toehrwise hes not worth it and hes just using you. :)
2006-12-15 11:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just want to have some fun as well, then why not?
2006-12-15 11:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both have a lack of self control.
2006-12-15 11:50:09 · answer #9 · answered by nappyhappiness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course if thats all you want then go for it -- but please talk to the guy first --- find out what he is looking for --- and be honest with him as well
2006-12-15 11:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋