I grew the ugly duckling not paying attention to my looks but as I grew older and began to develop I began getting alot of positive and negative attention from my looks. I'm not into what a person looks like nor am I into myself. I get treated differently because of my looks by men and women and I dont like it. alot of people say to me "you just dont even know how pretty you are" or "I didnt like you when I first met you because thought you were conceited but your really cool" or "why would a women like you want to be with someone like me". I just want to scream sometimes its just the shell of a person, would you take the time to see whats inside!"
2006-12-15 03:38:07 · 17 answers · asked by Curious Georgetta 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when someone says that say thank you and walk away. and to tell you everyone is pretty in there own way. and to me your hooked on yourself and you enjoy hearing all the compliments, like your the only one that is pretty out there. but open your eyes there are alot of others that are more prettier and don't act this way.
2006-12-15 03:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You develop your mind, and become confident. You will always have this issue. Men are intimidated by very attractive women and other women hate them. However, this is only the immature men and women. Those with self confidence are ok with it. So why dont you put yourself into a better surrounding of individuals. And gain some confidence in yourself develop your personality and your brain. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-15 11:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haha. Girl, I feel your pain. I'm definitely not a beauty queen or top model, but I get told many many times that I have no idea how beautiful I am. I want to slap them all in the face. One guy keeps telling me the reason he wants to date me is because I'm cool and "hot", as if those are the only two things he needs in a woman. I don't want to just be "hot"...I want to be smart and funny and everything else, too, and I'd like for people to notice that. So my advice is....ignore everyone. Do be gracious, say thank you, and change the conversation topic. I find that's the best solution.
2006-12-15 11:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by SassySours 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can't train society , So learn to deal with it.
Learn how to make yourself even more stunning. wear make up . do your hair and , wear clothes that are more flattering to your body type. Then see how much attention the really knock out girls get. you probably won't like that . but at least you'll know how much worse it could be for you and you'll stop whining about being so attractive. Or, choice # 2 . eat tons of food, get really fat. Don't wash your face and get lots of zits. And dress dowdy with over sized clothing. you'll soon blend into the background and no one will notice you.
2006-12-15 11:45:54 · answer #4 · answered by jassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately that is the way the world runs honey. you sound like a wonderful person though. and not being conceited is a bonus for these people beautiful and smart is a wonderful combination. Just accept the compliments and move on. Hey look at it this way it could be worse you could be a beautiful *****. but no you choose to be beautiful on the inside also. and that is a wonderful thing and it sounds like these people see that too. good luck and merry christmas to you.
2006-12-15 11:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by stunt101 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just go on with your life and do not worry about what people think of your appearance... looks are only skin deep and they matter very little... everyone ages, everyone dies... some people will think you are beautiful, some will think you are ugly but as you know it is what is inside that matters... just hold out and you will find people who like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are.. those are the keepers, true friends.
Good luck!
2006-12-15 11:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by jake_27_ky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is something i have to deal with everyday and i have learned that you should always be humble to the fact that you are pretty. just Say thank you whenever there is positive feedback and know that when there is negative feedback there is a positive one underneath. other than that cant no one tell you how to deal with it just find your own way and stick with it. make a positive name for women.
2006-12-15 11:43:59 · answer #7 · answered by Platinum 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is not big deal just get over the people how didn't care u 4 Ur self and care just how u look like
2006-12-15 11:52:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your hair stylist for a mullet! Might turn a few people off.
2006-12-15 11:42:28 · answer #9 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are living in a society full of shallowness ..you will have to learn to deal with it sooner or later
2006-12-15 11:42:23 · answer #10 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋