it had been a year and things were like a rollercoaster..maybe i'm the only one who feels it is worth a shot to be with my ex again when he feels otherwise..the sickest truth is i can't forget about him though i've tried so hard to live away from his shadow and memories..
2006-12-15 03:34:53 · 9 answers · asked by sarah7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THE HUMAN BRAIN HAS THE AMAZING ABILITY TO FORGET ALL THE PROBLEMS AND REMEMBER ONLY THE GOOD THINGS! I AM SURE YOU HAD A VERY GOOD REASON TO SEPARATE WITH YOUR EX! OF COURSE IT'S POSSIBLE TO GET BACK TOGETHER, BUT THINK VERY GOOD ABOUT IT! IS IT WORTH IT TO GO BACK TO HIM? JUST LIKE A VERY BEAUTIFUL VASE THAT HAS BROKEN. YOU CAN ALWAYS BUY A NEW ONE, THAT OF COURSE, WON'T BE THE SAME, OR SUPER-GLUE THE BROKEN ONE. BUT IT ALSO WON'T BE THE SAME ALTHOUGH ALL THE PIECES ARE THERE, AND IT DEFINITELY WON'T BE THAT BEAUTIFUL! YOU WILL MOST LIKELY BE DISAPPOINTED BY HIM, COS THAT WILL BE THE REAL HIM, NOT THE IDEALIZED IMAGE YOU HAVE FOR HIM NOW. YOU BETTER MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE!
2006-12-15 03:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by Stella 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 06:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by Alisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really even if you get back together with him the relationship will never be the same as what it was. Because you have a past it makes it hard to forgive and start over and every experience a person has, even how things ended makes them a different person. If your looking to recapture what was lost it will never be again. The sooner you can accept it, the sooner you'll be able to more on to someone who fits your profile.
2006-12-15 03:40:18 · answer #3 · answered by liz04ca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make this time all about YOU. If he is not feeling you and trying to get back with you, don't lower your self respect and try and make something work that has already been broken. All broken relationships take time to get over, but with hard work and honesty, you will get over him and find a better match for you. Give your self a chance to heal and more time to heal and grow. Sometimes we as women don't allow ourselves the time we need to heal from emotional hurt. Honor yourself and take the time to heal. You will be better off when you are healed and getting into another relationship. You will have a healthier heart and mind.
2006-12-15 03:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by TracyBee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on what broke the relationship up in the first place. Maybe you need to talk to him and see how he feels. Could be you just miss the comfort and companionship you had with him. Sometimes you have to go back to realize you didn't REALLY want to be back there!! Then you can move forward.
2006-12-15 03:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes most definitely sounds like your dangerously in love. And you're right, it is sick. You know the truth, yet the memories are there to haunt your every beckon move. Think about what your thinking!
2006-12-15 03:40:20 · answer #6 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine you're mendacity to your self. when you're on-line--no remember what you're doing--and also you're attempting to "get off" then you are being untrue on your better 0.5. own it like a actual guy and ask for forgiveness. perhaps when you're fortunate, he will forgive you. also, i comprehend it truly is a cliche, yet ask God with a real heart for His training and he will provide it to you---God supplies the purely right relationships ever:)
2016-11-26 21:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by shoaf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be mended but not without time and effort but it is going to take both of you wanting to reconcile.
2006-12-15 03:38:32 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if love still exists, and there is reconciliatory intention of both parties.
2006-12-15 03:38:02 · answer #9 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋