ok about 7-8 months ago me and this guy i was really hott for (joe)started hanging out but then he started dating my (ex) best friend well when they started dating he completly blew me off and wouldnt even talk to me but he went to rehab for 4 months and they split up for a few weeks weve benn hanging out and last night he told me that he was sorry for everything he ever did to me and that he wants to be with me what should i do
2006-12-15 03:23:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Balls in your court. I would give him a chance since he has been through re-hab but I would take it slow.
2006-12-15 03:26:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard somewhere that when u do a 12 step programme in rehab, one of the steps instructs you to apologize to the ones you hurt when u were high/stoned/drunk or on any kind of substance. Maybe that is what's step he is on now.
Regardless of any reason as to why he did what he did, (and your ex-best friend should be ashamed of herself also), at this point in time IT'S ALL ABOUT YOU.
If you feel that you want to be with this man then by all means give it another shot, but make sure, absolutely sure, that you take your time, take it REAL SLOW, watch over yourself carefully, so you will not get hurt again.
Also. Many addictions are very hard to get rid off, and it's a lifetime battle, understand that you might be taking a lot on. Make sure you take this into consideration if you re-start this relationship.
I wish you the best of luck,
Irene
2006-12-15 03:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy who dates someones best friend, and then is in rehab appears to have some baggage. If i were you I would move on.
2006-12-15 03:26:41 · answer #3 · answered by hank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away!!! The guy was in rehab...not just that but he obviously is very fickle!!! Likey to go away again either to rehab or another girl! In this life we suffer much pain and we have no choice, i always say why volunteer for pain becos if u are askin us u already no it wud not work...stay away!!!
2006-12-15 03:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by amanda E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um no he blew you off once already and then went to rehab don't ya know rehab is for quitters
2006-12-15 03:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was in rehab. Do nothing. Find someone more stable in life.
2006-12-15 03:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him finish working on himself by getting (and staying) clean and sober, after that if you're still interested in him (chances are that you won't), then take it from there. =0
2006-12-15 03:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by Graham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away cause he will think he can get away with stuff this isnt baseball you dont get 9 innings and you only get one strike and you are out
2006-12-15 03:27:10 · answer #8 · answered by babyboo197703820 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him.
2006-12-15 03:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u thought what waz over
2006-12-15 03:27:13 · answer #10 · answered by Queenbee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋