My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months. Everything is going really well. Every month, there seems to be a week where he lacks on his communciation skills. He usually calls everyday and texts me tons of cute thoughts. But there seems to be this reoccuring 3-4 day period where he seems to forget to call or text. I told him in the past if he is in a bad mood not to call because it will end up making me feel like I did something wrong. He listened and doesnt call. I get upset and disappointed when he doesnt call or text me for a few days, more so I worry, that I am either smothering him and needs space, which I am the least dependant gf I know or I worry that he is getting bored. I always feel like I shouldnt call him or text him during this time because he might think I am annoying or needy. So often I just play the same game. Guys...in this situation what should I do? Despite his mood or situation should I just continue doing what I always do? Or should I back off?
2006-12-15 03:16:45 · 2 answers · asked by Belize 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, i don't think u should back off, just change what u do, go farther in the relationship, i think u 2 will do just fine! gl
2006-12-15 03:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by da man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there might be two posibilitys, he might want you to call or text him or he just doesn't want to annoy you, maybe he thinks that at times he is the one that is being annoying and nerdy... so don't think he doesn't want you....because if he didnt he would have left you so you're doing good ^_^
2006-12-15 03:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by Alexander The Best 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋