be happy without wanting a bf?
and my X's older brother was telling me that me and my X are meant to be together but he cheated on me... is that true... we have been together for 7 yrs but broke up a few times. i have known him since i was born. but are we suppose to be together, he said something about how relationships are suppose to balance out???? can anyone plz help me and thanks!
2006-12-15 02:59:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he said something about because i am a good girl he is sorta a bad boy we cancel each other out or something?? idk... he is my high school sweetheart..but he cheated and lied what should i do?
2006-12-15 03:00:39 · update #1
hes only cheated on me once that i know of...
2006-12-15 03:06:39 · update #2
hes only cheated on me once that i know of...
2006-12-15 03:06:40 · update #3
Ask him why he cheated, most likely just sex!
2006-12-15 03:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me it sounds like he is just giving you an excuse, bad boys arent the only ones who cheat (good boys do it too) Any man can decide if he would like to be honest, faithful and trustworthy in a relationship. Move to someone who will respect you and give you the time you deserve.
2006-12-15 11:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he know you cannot handle the fact he sleepin around with other women? Or Maybe he assumed on your behalf that you would not mind if you ever found out...Do you know this side of the story?
Sometimes being inside the story blurrs your vision....get outside of it..get opinion of people you know probably ones closer to you and not him n his brother....ask them what they feel about it. And then make a go!
2006-12-15 11:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what about your x's brother i mean he seems interested in you maybe? If that guy cheated on you he will break your heart a million times
2006-12-15 11:07:15 · answer #4 · answered by Haley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times has he cheated on you? Is he trustworthy? I'd say listen to your heart. If you were truly meant to be, you will be, in time.
2006-12-15 11:02:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can SO be happy without a B/F. You just need to! Be good to yourself and the right one will pop into your life!!
2006-12-15 11:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by ballman4425 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmmmmmmmmm. no one knows that answer but you. if you have been dating him for 7 years its only natural you'll miss the company of guys...it will just take time...show him your fine without dating him and see if he comes crawling back...lol all guys want to see our girls come running back to us saying 'ooo ooo i can't live without you' so don't do it lol...if its meant to be it will work out...if its not it won't...give it some time and continue to be friends
2006-12-15 11:03:25 · answer #7 · answered by sirhc221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think they are both idiots....i dont think that "opposites attract" is a fair statement, ive had gf that are very similar to me.
why cant you be happy? you just want to have the mind set that someone (other than your family) loves you. hey what the hell...you seem sweet...i love you........
2006-12-15 11:04:47 · answer #8 · answered by jlp.media 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to you if you go back. but for 7 years i will suggest you to try again.
2006-12-15 11:02:30 · answer #9 · answered by Rakiya Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋