Well I am 23 years old and I have a Girlfriend that I love more than the world. But there is one problem her parents hate me more than they have hated anybody she says. We have been together for 2 years the first year was good and her parents liked me but then I went and cheated on her and that was the dumbest thing I have ever done. So her parents forgave me that time and then I went and broke up with her just because I wanted to be single and got back together with her a short time later and they forgave me that time too. Then the last time we got into a huge fight and I said some things that i never should have said and did not mean but her mom and dad heard the whole thing and now they hate me I mean really hate me. I love her so much and have changed my bad ways is there any chance that I can win her parents back? I really do love her and want to spent the rest of my life with her but she says she dont know what she wants because her parents hate me. Please Help
2006-12-15 02:57:19 · 8 answers · asked by navyseal_49 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
unfortunately, the rule says that once youve said something, you cant ever take it back... however that can work both ways.... the only thing i can think of is to show with your actions, and tell your gf that you messed up... her parents dont want to see their daughter treated like that, so i would suggest telling them that you are in idiot, and that you really screwed up when you treated their daughter like that.... but the only real way to get them back after that is to show them that you are serious and treat her good... its your choice....
2006-12-15 03:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by hihosilver2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 21:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to show them that you love their daughter and respect her. They may forgive you and they may not. It will just take time. In the future, think about what you are saying before you say it. You can't always take things back and at some point i'm sorry doesn't work anymore.
2006-12-15 03:02:36 · answer #3 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a mess! I am a parent, and I would not be pleased with you either.
Building trust takes a lifetime. Destroying it takes a second.
Trust takes time. But don't make her ever choose between you and her parents. One of you will never be happy.
2006-12-15 03:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by Momma Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having her parents hate you after they liked you at first is even worse than having them hate you right from the start. The only way you can redeem yourself is with time.
2006-12-15 03:00:15 · answer #5 · answered by Low Key 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay i do understand your situation but what i don't understand is why she lets her parents get involved in her love life.
She should talk 2 and her parents when your in the room and ask for their forgiveness and talk about how you want to have a relationship with her etc. and how you would like your relationship with them 2 lastest even through thick and thin.
Why must her parents be the one forgiving you but not her?
Your not dating them 2 u knw....i think thats ludacris they have no reason to butt in your relationship....YES!! they are her parents and they love her but they have 2 learn how to treat her like a women now and deal with her own problems....i don't hear your parents involved in this relationship.
I wish u good luck
bye
2006-12-15 03:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by Unknown_Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant you cheated you cant go back
2006-12-15 03:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they will never like you again. dont even try.
2006-12-15 02:59:23 · answer #8 · answered by Rakiya Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋